Same!I know the sound of my parents' footsteps, my brother, my husband and my daughter. No childhood trauma here
I can also tel which relative/friend is pulling up to the house just by the sound of the car. Absolutely no trauma here!
Same!I know the sound of my parents' footsteps, my brother, my husband and my daughter. No childhood trauma here
Saw this and thought it described her perfectlyThat’s what it looked like to me also. She’s an absolute liability. No TW either. ‘Tiny child,’ I mean who does that? Sorry but she is a pathological liar imo. No victim of childhood abuse gets ‘flashbacks’ and spews it up on social media immediately without or concern. I’d sue her for defamation.
I used to work in an office on my own whereby staff used to pass my office to get to the main office several times a day.Same!
I can also tel which relative/friend is pulling up to the house just by the sound of the car. Absolutely no trauma here!
Yep, with mother of the year laughing and thinking it's great! She's 17!! We all (most) did it, but hoped our parents didn't know. Is this the norm now, or is it the usual patchwork FML bullshit?I don’t get this with Betsy? Hangxiety? So just hung over then?!!
Welcome I’m so glad you’ve seen the light.I’ve been lurking since I stupidly bought her second book, whereby a few chapters in my head had a niggle and decided that something wasn’t quite right. A few google searches lead me to Tattle and my instincts were correct.
A few nights ago I found the earlier posts/letter from S and I’s Mum and my eyes were truly opened.
As a mum to a child between the ages of S and I, with an ex husband from 7years ago who controls my life weekly and decided a few weeks ago to fabricate a story and not return my son home, despite a court contact order that he asked for (only to reduce CMS payments I must add), my eyes have been well and truly opened to the fact these narcissistic people exist in multiples, not just on their own.
The feeling that your child is not coming home is one i don’t want any mum to ever feel. I’m not sure I have got over it now a few weeks later.
Luckily I had a happy outcome and my child is now home but the feeling will live with me forever. For a few days I thought I was going out of my mind and can sympathise with S and I’s Mum. In those few days I decided I would rather be dead than not see my child.
What I can’t get my head around is why they stop S and I seeing their mum, yet they are never there to parent them anyway, why?
Every time I see they have gone away I wonder what happens if one of the children is ill in the night and needs a mum cuddle.
When my son is ill he won’t go to his Dad’s because ‘they just make me lie there and they don’t do anything’.
Who do these children in the ‘patchwork house’ have to comfort them, kiss them and tell them it will all be ok? It breaks my heart.
I see so much of my ex husband in R…..the way she makes everyone think she is lush turns my stomach.
If I could do anything to help S and I see their Mum I would.
I just pray that as the boys get older and they start to see the world in a different lighy, their contact may be different.
And R, if you’re reading this, it’s about time you answered where the money went.
Same! I also knew when the departments hottie was walking past That always cheered my day up.I used to work in an office on my own whereby staff used to pass my office to get to the main office several times a day.
I used to know who was walking by and there were approximately 20 people in the office.
Absolutely no trauma here either.
she’s full of s***
We just call it beer fear where im from. Although it's been a looonngg time since I woke up trying to piece back memories of the night beforeI don’t get this with Betsy? Hangxiety? So just hung over then?!!
I really hope Seb can do this. He seems like quite a strong character so we can only hope there will be a breakthrough.Welcome I’m so glad you’ve seen the light.
The fact that people can be so cruel and use kids as weapons breaks my heart, I’m so glad you have your little one back. I can’t even imagine the pain it would cause to know I couldn’t be involved in my children’s lives, not even a text or phone call.
I hope Seb maybe starts to explore getting his mum back in his life. But as I suspect, the venom and brainwashing from R has caused the breakdo n in their relationship. But as he gets older may be he can be strong enough to stand up to her and his weak, so called father.
Hi and welcome, glad you seen the light and found us.I’ve been lurking since I stupidly bought her second book, whereby a few chapters in my head had a niggle and decided that something wasn’t quite right. A few google searches lead me to Tattle and my instincts were correct.
A few nights ago I found the earlier posts/letter from S and I’s Mum and my eyes were truly opened.
As a mum to a child between the ages of S and I, with an ex husband from 7years ago who controls my life weekly and decided a few weeks ago to fabricate a story and not return my son home, despite a court contact order that he asked for (only to reduce CMS payments I must add), my eyes have been well and truly opened to the fact these narcissistic people exist in multiples, not just on their own.
The feeling that your child is not coming home is one i don’t want any mum to ever feel. I’m not sure I have got over it now a few weeks later.
Luckily I had a happy outcome and my child is now home but the feeling will live with me forever. For a few days I thought I was going out of my mind and can sympathise with S and I’s Mum. In those few days I decided I would rather be dead than not see my child.
What I can’t get my head around is why they stop S and I seeing their mum, yet they are never there to parent them anyway, why?
Every time I see they have gone away I wonder what happens if one of the children is ill in the night and needs a mum cuddle.
When my son is ill he won’t go to his Dad’s because ‘they just make me lie there and they don’t do anything’.
Who do these children in the ‘patchwork house’ have to comfort them, kiss them and tell them it will all be ok? It breaks my heart.
I see so much of my ex husband in R…..the way she makes everyone think she is lush turns my stomach.
If I could do anything to help S and I see their Mum I would.
I just pray that as the boys get older and they start to see the world in a different lighy, their contact may be different.
And R, if you’re reading this, it’s about time you answered where the money went.
Dear Lord. I had no idea the boys Mum was still on here. My heart goes out to her and I am sure like many others on here we are all counting down the hours until the boys see the light.Hi and welcome, glad you seen the light and found us.
With regards to the boys mum, something has gone off as she posted in distress a few evenings ago, then I noticed Rach shared stories and made a point of explaining bruising on her kids and blamed it on Edie, pinch punch first day of the month. I smell something fishy!
Her Mum is fast becoming my favourite. It’s the look of ‘what the duck’ she hasHer mother didn't look impressed with Bekind or her.
Probably wondering how her child was subjected to a traumatic upbringing.Her mother didn't look impressed with Bekind or her.