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Do people keep asking you what are you going to name the baby? I'm reluctant to share the gender because the name question comes right after.
With our first we told people some of the names we were considering but then when they always had something to say we stopped and said we weren’t sharing his name until he was born. People are less likely to share a crappy opinion when faced with an actual baby with that name rather than a hypothetical one.
This time round we genuinely don’t have any names yet at almost 34 weeks!
 
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I’m not counting calories because I’m throwing up what I eat every second day so gimme the maccas chips.
 
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I just kept telling everyone we were naming the baby Renesmee. 😂 🐀 ✨ Which then escalated to Renesmee Euphegenia Clementine when the same people kept asking. 🤣 My MIL convinced herself the name was gonna be Esme which couldn’t have been further from the unisex name we’d loved for years. 😂
 
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We’ve taken to calling the bubba Junior [Our Surname], abbreviated to initials so if our surname was Dragname we’d be calling it JD. I feel like we’re setting ourselves up to either have to name the baby a name beginning with J or name the baby after one of us, to be known as Junior forevermore. I can’t imagine we’ll tell anyone our thoughts on names. I did have a girl’s name in mind but it turns out there is a porn star with that exact name so.. that’s probably out!
 
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I’ve had a ROUGH couple of days, sickness back full force, a splitting headache that I can’t shift, feeling like I’m going to pass out every time I stand for more than a minute. Thought I was in labour last night as I was having regular tightenings, lasting 30-45 seconds and between 4-5 minutes apart, but gradually stopped through the night and none today.
You know it’s your second pregnancy because I probably would have rang triage/111 if this was my first but we’ve got so much on at the minute I don’t want to go and be told I’m fine!
 
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I’ve had a ROUGH couple of days, sickness back full force, a splitting headache that I can’t shift, feeling like I’m going to pass out every time I stand for more than a minute. Thought I was in labour last night as I was having regular tightenings, lasting 30-45 seconds and between 4-5 minutes apart, but gradually stopped through the night and none today.
You know it’s your second pregnancy because I probably would have rang triage/111 if this was my first but we’ve got so much on at the minute I don’t want to go and be told I’m fine!
If you have a blood pressure monitor, you could check that's in order. Hugs.
 
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I’ve had a ROUGH couple of days, sickness back full force, a splitting headache that I can’t shift, feeling like I’m going to pass out every time I stand for more than a minute. Thought I was in labour last night as I was having regular tightenings, lasting 30-45 seconds and between 4-5 minutes apart, but gradually stopped through the night and none today.
You know it’s your second pregnancy because I probably would have rang triage/111 if this was my first but we’ve got so much on at the minute I don’t want to go and be told I’m fine!
i really would get the BP checked - I was having tightening I ignored and I’m a headachey person anyway so ignored that too. 3 days later at an antenatal appointment my BP was 160/100 and I was 5cm dilated 😆
Of course that was fine as I was 40+5 and gave birth that night but I can’t remember how far along you are now?
 
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Thank you both, I haven’t got a BP monitor but mine is always on the low side anyway, I’ll see if I can hold out until my midwife appointment on Wednesday. I’m 33+5, I think I’m just run down and exhausted.
 
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Has anyone cracked the insomnia? It’s doing my head in. I’ve not had a full night’s sleep since my positive pregnancy test in January and I’m trying to pretend at work that I am a) a functioning adult capable of doing my job and b) not pregnant 🤣.

I wake up at least twice a night needing to wee. I’ve always had a pretty poor bladder but it’s worse since getting pregnant. But I often really struggle to get back to sleep at either of my wake ups, despite being tired. I have basically no choice but to crawl off to bed at 9pm because I’m shattered but then I’m sometimes awake with no chance of getting back to sleep by 4am and it’s dire. I have tried to stay up a bit longer to see if that helps but it hasnt helped. Beyond the general worries any pregnant person or person with quite a senior job in a charity in a funding and cost of living crisis would have, I’m not currently feeling under any particular additional stress. I’ve had a few flails but generally my anxiety has been quite good. This morning I’d have sold my soul for a day off in bed.
I realise sleeplessness is now part of the rest of my life through parenthood but whilst I’m in this germination phase it would be great to get some proper rest and no write off my weekends to napping.
 
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Has anyone cracked the insomnia? It’s doing my head in. I’ve not had a full night’s sleep since my positive pregnancy test in January and I’m trying to pretend at work that I am a) a functioning adult capable of doing my job and b) not pregnant 🤣.

I wake up at least twice a night needing to wee. I’ve always had a pretty poor bladder but it’s worse since getting pregnant. But I often really struggle to get back to sleep at either of my wake ups, despite being tired. I have basically no choice but to crawl off to bed at 9pm because I’m shattered but then I’m sometimes awake with no chance of getting back to sleep by 4am and it’s dire. I have tried to stay up a bit longer to see if that helps but it hasnt helped. Beyond the general worries any pregnant person or person with quite a senior job in a charity in a funding and cost of living crisis would have, I’m not currently feeling under any particular additional stress. I’ve had a few flails but generally my anxiety has been quite good. This morning I’d have sold my soul for a day off in bed.
I realise sleeplessness is now part of the rest of my life through parenthood but whilst I’m in this germination phase it would be great to get some proper rest and no write off my weekends to napping.
Oh gosh I am the same. Three times in the night for toilet, struggle to get back to sleep and then by lunchtime I could easily crash out for 2 hours.

saw my midwife 5 days ago and only just been told I have a UTI. 😞
 
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Has anyone cracked the insomnia? It’s doing my head in. I’ve not had a full night’s sleep since my positive pregnancy test in January and I’m trying to pretend at work that I am a) a functioning adult capable of doing my job and b) not pregnant 🤣.

I wake up at least twice a night needing to wee. I’ve always had a pretty poor bladder but it’s worse since getting pregnant. But I often really struggle to get back to sleep at either of my wake ups, despite being tired. I have basically no choice but to crawl off to bed at 9pm because I’m shattered but then I’m sometimes awake with no chance of getting back to sleep by 4am and it’s dire. I have tried to stay up a bit longer to see if that helps but it hasnt helped. Beyond the general worries any pregnant person or person with quite a senior job in a charity in a funding and cost of living crisis would have, I’m not currently feeling under any particular additional stress. I’ve had a few flails but generally my anxiety has been quite good. This morning I’d have sold my soul for a day off in bed.
I realise sleeplessness is now part of the rest of my life through parenthood but whilst I’m in this germination phase it would be great to get some proper rest and no write off my weekends to napping.
Magnesium Glycinate has been the only thing that's worked for me. It's also great for lots of pregnancy issues and beneficial to baby's development.
 
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Oh gosh I am the same. Three times in the night for toilet, struggle to get back to sleep and then by lunchtime I could easily crash out for 2 hours.

saw my midwife 5 days ago and only just been told I have a UTI. 😞
Bahhh poor you. I feel super thirsty at night (which I’m hoping isn’t GD but who the heck knows, I’m only 13 weeks so I won’t be being tested any time soon) and so once I’ve had a wee I need to drink some water because my throat is parched. My poor husband is a light sleeper so he wakes up with me and then asks if I’m ok, and my cat thinks anyone so much as blinking too heavily is the sign that it’s time for breakfast, so we’re pretty wrecked as a household right now!
 
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Magnesium Glycinate has been the only thing that's worked for me. It's also great for lots of pregnancy issues and beneficial to baby's development.
I do take two magnesium 3 in 1 tablets at day, from nutrition geeks. Glycinate is definitely one of the three types. Maybe I should switch to taking them at night again like I used to when I was TTC and took so many supplements I had to split them between day and night. Thank you!
 
Has anyone cracked the insomnia? It’s doing my head in. I’ve not had a full night’s sleep since my positive pregnancy test in January and I’m trying to pretend at work that I am a) a functioning adult capable of doing my job and b) not pregnant 🤣.

I wake up at least twice a night needing to wee. I’ve always had a pretty poor bladder but it’s worse since getting pregnant. But I often really struggle to get back to sleep at either of my wake ups, despite being tired. I have basically no choice but to crawl off to bed at 9pm because I’m shattered but then I’m sometimes awake with no chance of getting back to sleep by 4am and it’s dire. I have tried to stay up a bit longer to see if that helps but it hasnt helped. Beyond the general worries any pregnant person or person with quite a senior job in a charity in a funding and cost of living crisis would have, I’m not currently feeling under any particular additional stress. I’ve had a few flails but generally my anxiety has been quite good. This morning I’d have sold my soul for a day off in bed.
I realise sleeplessness is now part of the rest of my life through parenthood but whilst I’m in this germination phase it would be great to get some proper rest and no write off my weekends to napping.
Whatever you do, don’t check your phone. Not even to see what time it is. This applies during the newborn wake up phases as well!
Really makes a difference for me managing to get back to sleep
 
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I am still waking up at least once a night (grateful when it's just once 😂) for a wee. Also been waking up so thirsty recently too, mind you I have got my millionth cold of this pregnancy so that's not helping! My partner is a heavy sleeper and falls asleep so easily, I get jealous when I am tossing and turning and he's just snoring away 😂😂
 
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I do take two magnesium 3 in 1 tablets at day, from nutrition geeks. Glycinate is definitely one of the three types. Maybe I should switch to taking them at night again like I used to when I was TTC and took so many supplements I had to split them between day and night. Thank you!
Absolutely take the magnesium at night. I also avoid bright lights on the night when going to wee, bright lights or my partner talking to me take me out of the sleep mode and make it more difficult to go back to sleep.
 
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Has anyone cracked the insomnia? It’s doing my head in. I’ve not had a full night’s sleep since my positive pregnancy test in January and I’m trying to pretend at work that I am a) a functioning adult capable of doing my job and b) not pregnant 🤣.

I wake up at least twice a night needing to wee. I’ve always had a pretty poor bladder but it’s worse since getting pregnant. But I often really struggle to get back to sleep at either of my wake ups, despite being tired. I have basically no choice but to crawl off to bed at 9pm because I’m shattered but then I’m sometimes awake with no chance of getting back to sleep by 4am and it’s dire. I have tried to stay up a bit longer to see if that helps but it hasnt helped. Beyond the general worries any pregnant person or person with quite a senior job in a charity in a funding and cost of living crisis would have, I’m not currently feeling under any particular additional stress. I’ve had a few flails but generally my anxiety has been quite good. This morning I’d have sold my soul for a day off in bed.
I realise sleeplessness is now part of the rest of my life through parenthood but whilst I’m in this germination phase it would be great to get some proper rest and no write off my weekends to napping.
If it makes you feel any better at all I’ve slept better with a baby/toddler (including when she was a newborn) than I did when I was pregnant. That was something else 😂
 
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I do take two magnesium 3 in 1 tablets at day, from nutrition geeks. Glycinate is definitely one of the three types. Maybe I should switch to taking them at night again like I used to when I was TTC and took so many supplements I had to split them between day and night. Thank you!
I second the magnesium ! I take the wellard one - 2 capsules every night 30 mins before bed with some water and I get at least 7.5-8 hours a night! I work a very high stress role and need sleep and touchwood I’ve been ok - I’m 18 weeks now

Have you told work yet so they can do a risk assessment?
 
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I don’t even need a wee. I just wake up and cannot get back to sleep for a good couple of hours and then my little one is awake at 6am. I managed to actually do some prenatal yoga this morning for the first time in 3 months so that was nice. Boyyyyy do I need to stretch 😅
 
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Can I ask when everyone first felt movements with anterior placenta?
Feel I’m getting anxious as I haven’t felt anything and I’m nearly 19 weeks 🥹
 
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