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Brewtime87

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I dread to think how those of you further along are coping when even at half way there with a teeny bump I can no longer get comfy at night, wake up what feels like every 20/30 mins and have finally come to the conclusion that lying down is no longer any fun or comfortable whatsoever. Oh well I guess at least I'll be used to broken sleep when baby is here.
 
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watermelon sugar

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I’ve lost count how many times I’ve been for a wee today. It must be in the 70s by now. Everytime I sit down she kung fu kicks my bladder and I’m up again

Also I was eating a bowl of tuna pasta for my lunch this afternoon and had my bowl resting on my stomach, and she kicked and the bowl tipped over 🤣 Made me chuckle
 
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raspberryjuice

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After 16 months trying and a couple of fertility appointments we finally got a positive this morning. I had been taking Metformin for three months to help with my ovulation and my number were so high this month I just had a feeling this would be it.
I had a few symptoms this week but kept telling myself it was period related apart from nausea. I know its early but I suffer from motion sickness most days so I knew I would probably feel sick. I dont know what I'm rambling on about I'm just so happy its finally worked. Negative thoughts keep trying to kick in but I wont let them.
Congratulations! 🥰 if your nausea is bad make sure you speak to someone about meds. I believe the earlier you start the more effective they can be. And they’re fine for baby 😊
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CTG this morning was fine. No consultants available (🤨) so no idea what next. I’ll be going back if he’s quiet (or too active) later today though but at the moment he’s normal.

I hate the lack of communication in hospital. Everyone has a different plan, a different idea or comes in with no clue of your history. Just someone make a decision and give me a plan 🙄🤷🏻‍♀️
 
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watermelon sugar

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Does anyone else just hate night time now?? I go to sleep filled with dread because I know I’m going to be waking up constantly for the toilet, cos I’m uncomfortable, cos something hurts, and that I will probably be awake for hours at some point 😭 I’ve just accepted my fate I’m not going to have a good nights sleep again for a good few years 😂
 
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Lioness1

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Just catching up on yesterday’s chats! I went back to work yesterday for the first time since January, woke up this morning and was instantly sick. I’m so over feeling ill now!

My dreams are crazy! I never remember my dreams usually but pregnancy dreams I remember everything. Last nights dream I really wanted a good sex session but my husband wasn’t for it and he was watching porn so I’ve woke up raging at him. No idea why cause I couldn’t think of anything worse than having sex right now! 😂
 
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Brewtime87

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I'll be declining any offers of contraception after birth. It took us such a long time to get here that even though it isn't our plan to try for another for at least another year after baby is born, I wouldn't be mad if it did accidentally happen sooner than planned as I know full well that if we are blessed with baby number two then it'd be an absolute blessing whenever that may be.
 
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yankydoo

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Good luck to those who have their 20 week scans today. How exciting!

I just had my booking appointment and got the date through for my 12 week scan in 3 weeks. I'm so excited so that I can hopefully tell people soon.
 
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raspberryjuice

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I told my boss the week after I found out so I could have a risk assessment. It’s just as well I did because I was then off for 2 weeks on holiday and then had HG so was off sick for ages. He didn’t tell anyone until we announced officially at 12 weeks. He did tell me it feels like the world’s longest pregnancy though because he’s known for so long!

I’m really annoyed today. I’ve just been to the gestational diabetes clinic for the first time after being diagnosed last week. The call I got last week basically told me no sugar, no white carbs etc and it’s been really bad for my HG because potato has been the one thing that’s helped settle my sickness all through pregnancy. I also had to stop one of my sickness meds at the same time as being diagnosed because it can affect the baby when he’s born. So I’ve had a really shit week of throwing up 15+ times a day, being stuck in bed and sleeping loads etc. Got to the clinic today and asked wtf I do if I can’t eat potato/pasta because I can’t keep much else down and I’m now feeling really poorly. The nurse then got my results from last week up and said actually it was only my fasting result that was very slightly raised, and my blood glucose was absolutely fine after the drink. I told them on the morning I wasn’t feeling well at all, I had a slight temperature, was feeling sick and light headed and I was really anxious because of the drink and trying to keep it down and because they’d sent Mr R away when I was feeling so unwell all of which can cause raised blood sugar levels. She said it’s more than likely that that has caused the raised fasting result, that I should eat normally for the next week and just monitor my blood sugars now I’ve been diagnosed but that normally they’d just retest and I’d probably be negative I’m just too far on for a retest 🙄 It’s really annoyed me, firstly because I’ve spent all week feeling so unwell for no reason (literally had a jacket potato straight after the appt and instantly my sickness was better and my blood sugars didn’t raise) but also that now means we’ll be in hospital for at least 30 hours after birth (hospital policy), baby will need testing unnecessarily, additional testing in future pregnancies and I’ll be referred for yearly tests for diabetes in general 🙄 obviously I’m glad it means I haven’t had uncontrolled GD for weeks since my last test which would have been affecting baby but also all that unnecessary testing, sickness etc is really frustrating. Ugh!
 
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raspberryjuice

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Yeah I just ordered my normal size! They’ve grown with my bum and the water retention in my legs but still don’t look stretched or anything. They’ll definitely be fine with vests etc til it’s warm enough for dresses 😁 I might actually get a couple more pairs for after baby is here just for comfort 🤣

I tried a walk and hot curry last night and no movement from baby just a few cramps and mild back ache so I’ve told Mr R his luck is in when he gets home 😂 because of HG and then being on a sex ban because of my bleeding we haven’t actually had sex since the start of September so I’m probably in for a whole 0.5 seconds of really uncomfortable fun 🤣 I hope it works! 😂
 
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raspberryjuice

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Mr R is literally my maternity cover! Which is good because he’s brilliant at his job so I know when I go back it will be ok, but I feel like I’m not even off sometimes cus he brings it all home and updates me every day.

Sending you love @littlepup hope he sorts himself out when baby arrives. It sounds difficult 🤗
 
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Seeemm

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I’m so annoyed at myself for chugging a load of water at 12.15am, I wanted a good sleep but now I’m gonna be awake at like 4am for a massive piss 😂
 
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Brewtime87

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Anyone else at the fun stage where every time you need to cough or sneeze, you end up in a panic wishing you were an octopus so you have enough arms to cover your mouth & nose, hold your bump on both sides and cross n squeeze your legs to prevent an unwelcome little wee dribble. We really are troopers aren't we!
 
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watermelon sugar

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I'm an emotional wreck this morning. My bump is finally looking like a bump, went to give my partner a kiss and hug before I left for work and he put one arm round me and cradled bump with the other while saying "group hug, I love you both". 😭❤
I honesty feel like one of the luckiest people in the world. 🥹
Cute 🥺 My partner has gone from saying ‘love you both’ to me and my 4 year old to ‘love you all’ and it gets me everytime 🥲
 
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Greencatfysh

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Congratulations, I'm so so happy to see you here ❤
I would contact your GP and EPU and explain your history and ask if they're able to get you in for earlier scans or anything. Other than that just try to go easy on yourself, don't put pressure on yourself and just take each day as it comes. The anxiety does get easier/less. X
Totally agree, the only thing that saved me from being an absolutely wreck was having 2 early scans and being able to see baby was ok on screen. Reading the stats about once you see a heartbeat, etc. To be honest though, I was also bracing myself for if there was a negative outcome and tried to make plans and support systems for myself just in case. There will be a day when you can finally let go and relax a little more - but unfortunately there’s no easy fix to get through that first tri.
 
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raspberryjuice

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We’re triage bound again. Had a lovely meal out with my parents this evening but since we’ve been home I’ve realised he’s barely moved today and he’s normally so active in the evening/this time of day. Also have a really bad pain down the side of my bump where he’s usually sat. Ugh.
 
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littlepup

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Just wanted to show my appreciation for your posts, they’re always very informative and well balanced x
Thank you. I don’t want to be preachy or know it all but I had such a shit time with my first I feel like if I can help anyone feel less anxious I want to try. Nothing prepares you for the rollercoaster of pregnancy and there’s so much pressure to “relax and enjoy it”!

Had a bit of an up and down few days as they found some anomalies in my bloods. Good old google has set me spiralling so I’m trying to pull myself back to the facts that scans are clear, baby is healthy, it’s only a slight elevation etc 🤞🏼 when they retest it’ll have just been a weird blip.
@raspberryjuice was it you who had the rib pain?
 
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