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Yes I’d call triage. You don’t want to mess around with pre-eclampsia, it can move really quickly. If they keep you in it’ll be for the right reasons. They may even induce you so I’d go fully prepared. Good luck x
 
Sorry to ruin the lovely name choosing chat, I just needed to vent. I’m in the WORST MOOD EVER TODAY and everyone keeps making it worse. Rant over. (Almost 8 weeks)
 
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I would definitely speak to triage, especially if you have a headache and it’s causing changes to your eyesight.

I had pre-eclampsia (literally just before/during labour) and I went from feeling okay, to looking down and seeing my feet and legs balloon up in the space of about half an hour and having medication shoved down my throat! Good luck xx
 
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Definitely speak to triage! I hope you don’t have to wait much longer to meet your little one with how uncomfortable you’re feeling
 
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I love George but think I’d maybe use it as a middle name. Would’ve considered Georgie for a girl but a family member already used Georgia so that’s out. I much prefer classic/traditional names. These quirky, unusual names are not for me.
 
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I am dreading picking a name. When we've spoken about it in the past we've had very, very different ideas.
Very poorly today, another morning spent being sick and 3 day of an awful headache that just won't shift. I've tried paracetamol, migraine cold patches, tried sitting with my feet in a hot bath while putting a cold flannel on my neck but it's just not budging. We're telling a few people today but honestly I just want to hide away in bed. Eugh we really do go through it don't we.
 
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I picked this ones name straight away. It's a unisex name. Not common but not made up either or chavvy etc lol. No other names have even been considered. One of my kids has an adjective for a name (meaning behind it lol) I also have 2 juniors (2 baby daddies lol).
 
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Have you seen anyone about your headache? It could be down to blood pressure or even dehydration if you’re being so sick? Hope you feel better soon
 
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Have you seen anyone about your headache? It could be down to blood pressure or even dehydration if you’re being so sick? Hope you feel better soon
No I haven't to be fair, but I have always suffered from migraines and bad headaches and have read that if you're already prone to them, then you're likely to suffer in pregnancy
 
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No I haven't to be fair, but I have always suffered from migraines and bad headaches and have read that if you're already prone to them, then you're likely to suffer in pregnancy
Yeah part of the reason I got signed off from work was because of migraines! I’ve always been prone to headaches but everyday I’d finish work with a migraine so I got signed off along with being anaemic. The dr prescribed me aspirin which helped more than paracetomal if you want to give that a try x
 
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Phoned triage and they didn't want to see me. Suggested my headache may be due to a sinus infection which, to be fair, my OH has had bad man flu for the past couple of days so is quite likely. I'd taken three readings of my blood pressure at home and given them the average and they weren't too fussed about that. Have been out for a walk and am feeling much better now. Feeling a bit fed up with the in laws and really guilty about not being able to do stuff with my wee one and I think it is just getting a bit much for me, especially with the constant comments and messages about the baby. It's very overwhelming
 
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@Brewtime87 sorry I’m being totally lazy, can you please link the pregnancy pillow you posted the other day? Or if anyone has any other recommendations. My husband thought he was doing well and brought me in a V shaped pillow from ikea last night but I’ve told him to take it back, I want a big one!
 
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Absolutely! It's this one, although I've not tried it yet to be able to say if it's any good or not x
 
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Sorry you’re suffering @Jellycat369 Hopefully things start moving soon, in the meantime can you refer comments to your husband for a kind “Thanks for thinking of us, we’ll let you know when there’s something to report. We’re just enjoying our last few days a a 3”?

I’ve reached the magic 24 weeks, officially viable! I know it’s no guarantee and still really early but it feels like a bit of a pregnancy milestone. Feeling better in myself too which is positive. Can’t wait to get to my 28 week growth scan, feels like that will be a big relief.
 
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I’m 7w6 with my 2nd pregnancy.

1st pregnancy ended in a missed miscarriage (ended up MC fully at 11 ish weeks)

I’m terrified and imagining every tug or pull in my abdomen is another MC

Any advice for how to mentally get through the next few weeks until my 1st scan?
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m this was me last year and sadly it was a missed miscarriage. But I was absolutely sure of my dates .
 
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Hey lovely. I’m in basically the exact same boat as you with MMC last summer and 7 weeks 4 days now. I don’t have a huge amount of advice, I got an early scan with my EPU which really helped but I’m also just getting through each day til I can have more scans and reach further milestones than last time. My experience has also been very different this time (last time I had almost no symptoms) which I know doesn’t mean much but it’s still reassuring. We have each other! X
 
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Congrats! I’m 24 weeks today too!! I was actually discussing with my husband earlier about how big a deal it feels. It’s definitely a huge milestone. At one point, I really convinced myself we wouldn’t make it this far so it’s made me feel really overwhelmed and emotional 🥲

there will always be more worries, as is the case for every pregnancy… but I think celebrating and appreciating these milestones is really important
 
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I got the BBHug Me, total splurge. It’s massive and wonderful but really not enough room for me, himself and the pillow..
 
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He has been, especially as 90% are coming from his family. Just hard not to internalise things when you're already feeling low. Plus I know they aren't being horrible or anything, just feels like added pressure when I'm already on a time crunch!

Congrats on hitting 24 weeks
 
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I do honestly feel for anyone who doesn’t have the best in laws. I’m really lucky to in that sense - makes up for the fact my mum is a dickhead who isn’t involved. We actually moved to be closer to his family so they’re kind of all I have day to day. They’re so supportive without being overbearing at all. But it sounds like such a headache to deal with bad ones.
 
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