we have this one - I had it recommended to me on here. We had the Next to Me and I can confirm this is the same size, but it’s so much easier to fold down/put up (great if you’re travelling with it). And it comes with a carry case.
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we have this one - I had it recommended to me on here. We had the Next to Me and I can confirm this is the same size, but it’s so much easier to fold down/put up (great if you’re travelling with it). And it comes with a carry case.
Hi everyone, finally got home with baby muffin last night around 11pm after 5 days in hospital. I’m going to pop the experience in a spoiler as it maybe triggering for some, it certainly is for me and I don’t think I’ve wholly processed it yet.
will be gradually transitioning to the new baby thread, this thread was a godsend whenever weird crap happened during pregnancy so thanks to each and everyone of you for your advice.
will be gradually transitioning to the new baby thread, this thread was a godsend whenever weird crap happened during pregnancy so thanks to each and everyone of you for your advice.
after getting mild contractions last Thursday, my waters broke on the Saturday morning. This was confirmed by the hospital, and I was booked in for an induction for Sunday morning 24 hours after the waters broke due to infection.
I had quite painful cramps overnight, went in on Sunday morning and was already 4cm dilated. They broke the rest of my waters and things ramped up, ended up having codeine, gas and air, pethidine and an epidural.
got to 10cm dilated after 9 hours in labour, and after pushing for an hour, was told she was stuck behind some bend in the cervix? They assured me I was pushing fine and nothing to do with the epidural. The only things left were instrumental or c section, and she was so far up instrumental wouldnt reach her so I had to have sn emergency section, which was really really the worst thing as I preached being miss flexible but I just did not want it. It went fine and beautiful baby muffin was born. However, since then my pulse was high and I picked up several infections. My legs and feet are also incredibly swollen which concerned doctors. Baby Muffin is the saving grace in all this, I found 5 days in hospital the worst of my life, although those days gave me the best thing in my life.
I’m pretty immobile atm with the scar the way it is, and I don’t think I’ve properly processed exactly what has happened to me. I just thought I would share and say if anyone wants to discuss then I’m happy to, the midwife is coming over later and I might have a chat with her about PTSD as I don’t feel I can process exactly what happened.
I had quite painful cramps overnight, went in on Sunday morning and was already 4cm dilated. They broke the rest of my waters and things ramped up, ended up having codeine, gas and air, pethidine and an epidural.
got to 10cm dilated after 9 hours in labour, and after pushing for an hour, was told she was stuck behind some bend in the cervix? They assured me I was pushing fine and nothing to do with the epidural. The only things left were instrumental or c section, and she was so far up instrumental wouldnt reach her so I had to have sn emergency section, which was really really the worst thing as I preached being miss flexible but I just did not want it. It went fine and beautiful baby muffin was born. However, since then my pulse was high and I picked up several infections. My legs and feet are also incredibly swollen which concerned doctors. Baby Muffin is the saving grace in all this, I found 5 days in hospital the worst of my life, although those days gave me the best thing in my life.
I’m pretty immobile atm with the scar the way it is, and I don’t think I’ve properly processed exactly what has happened to me. I just thought I would share and say if anyone wants to discuss then I’m happy to, the midwife is coming over later and I might have a chat with her about PTSD as I don’t feel I can process exactly what happened.
Had a talk with the mental health midwife at my hospital earlier this week where she said if the choice was between forceps or c section I can request c-section, however I’ve just found out if the baby is so low it can lead to bladder issues for me, serious problems for baby being forced back up.
I’ve now got myself in such a state over birth (nearly 38wks and he’s a big baby apparently, I’m tiny!) and the fear is even more intense.
I’ve done hypnobirthing and all of those exercises but the thought of being forced objects inside me brings back such awful trauma, I cried hysterically putting a pessary in last week!!
Is it too late to ask for an elective? I’m SO torn but really finding it hard to trust in my body atm and in no way want forceps / ventouse intervention.
Ultimately all I want is for baby to be here safely but it’s all taking its toll now and I feel so scared.
I’ve now got myself in such a state over birth (nearly 38wks and he’s a big baby apparently, I’m tiny!) and the fear is even more intense.
I’ve done hypnobirthing and all of those exercises but the thought of being forced objects inside me brings back such awful trauma, I cried hysterically putting a pessary in last week!!
Is it too late to ask for an elective? I’m SO torn but really finding it hard to trust in my body atm and in no way want forceps / ventouse intervention.
Ultimately all I want is for baby to be here safely but it’s all taking its toll now and I feel so scared.
Very similar to what happened with my first, definitely speak to midwife as post birth counselling is available. I wish I had it at the time as it took me a long time to process what happened. Probably why it took me 4 years to do it again
I know one of my friends has had it and found it useful.My left leg was swollen for a good couple of weeks after, make sure you're drinking plenty and keep them elevated as much as possible
I don’t think you’re too late. I’m being pushed by both my midwife and consultant to go for an induction and I don’t want it. I’m 38 weeks and I’ve to “make a decision” by the end of this week. Even though I’ve told them from the start I know my decision I don’t want any of the induction stuff I’d prefer an elective, but it appears to be falling on deaf ears!
My midwife is going to call me this afternoon to “make a plan” so I hope that’s together and not a ‘hospital policy plan’. She’s usually really understanding so I hope she understands my fears.
I’m sorry you’re being pushed for an induction, I hope you’re able to stand firm and get the elective. I’m with you on that one too with an elective over induction.
Surely by the end of this week they have to take the elective option if it’s what you want? Since they’re pushing for an answer?
Had my growth scan today and our boy is already measuring 4lbs 11oz at 31+5, putting him on the 97th percentile. Not super concerned as I know they’re not the most accurate and we’ve still got time for his growth to slow down. However, I will be fuming if I don’t end up having any intervention and he comes out huge - we’ve (stupidly) bought loads of newborn size clothes that aren’t going to fit him!
Just wondering if anyone has any help/suggestions ..
I’ve been off contraception since last December so a year and a few months.. wouldn’t say we were “trying to conceive” but obviously knew it could happen and we would’ve been happy. However now we have decided to properly “try” but I don’t really know what to do differently?! Bit worried now that it hasn't already happened.. What helped you when trying? Thank you!
I’ve been off contraception since last December so a year and a few months.. wouldn’t say we were “trying to conceive” but obviously knew it could happen and we would’ve been happy. However now we have decided to properly “try” but I don’t really know what to do differently?! Bit worried now that it hasn't already happened.. What helped you when trying? Thank you!
I used ovulation tests and preseed lube I truly believe the preseed helped because although it was only our first cycle so can’t say for certain the reviews were really really good, it’s worth a try!
Just ordered some on Amazon!! Reviews look really good, thank you!
Thank you, I tried to find one but couldn’t!! Thanks
thanks for this, I think when I feel up to it I’ll definitely contact them and arrange something. I think my hormones have got the better of me as spent the day crying. My legs have been getting better at least though. Baby muffin was worth it all I’m just wondering how I can process it all as I never likes needles or blood at the best of times and I’ve just spent the last week being poked and prodded.Very similar to what happened with my first, definitely speak to midwife as post birth counselling is available. I wish I had it at the time as it took me a long time to process what happened. Probably why it took me 4 years to do it again
My left leg was swollen for a good couple of weeks after, make sure you're drinking plenty and keep them elevated as much as possible
I cried a lot after my first (very similar story but not with the follow up repercussions you’ve had), I felt like I’d been hit by a truck. You’ve been through a genuine ORDEAL. It is probably a mix of hormones and shock. Do you have a decent support network? My only recommendation is get as much support as you can and if necessary buy it in if you can afford it. Both me and my husband were shell shocked for weeks and we didn’t have anyone. It’s really hard going but sending you lots of love and hope you’re more mobile very soon.
I’ve been having waves of contractions for the last three hours. The time between is really inconsistent, sometimes as long as 30 minutes sometimes only ten minutes, going up and down. No show/mucus plug yet and waters having broken. Going to call for advice but just wondering if anyone else has experience similar?
Yes, this was me a week ago! My contractions didn’t settle into any pattern until day 3 of labour for me. I had them Thursday evening, mucus plug went on Friday, contractions Friday, waters Saturday, went in on Sunday. I was also wondering about the lack of pattern but for me it wasn’t until I was 5cm dilated that there was any rhythm.
Has anyone had any experience of small babies? My 3rd pregnancy here and baby was measuring on the 10th percentile at 25 weeks, I was already consultant led care due to a history of small babies and my growth scan has been moved from 4 week intervals to 2.
my first pregnancy i had pre eclampsia and despite me expressing concerns to a midwife i was told my swelling was due to the hot summer we where having. Unfortunately as a niave 21 year old i took the midwife at her word and Unfortunately my daughter was stillborn at 36 weeks weighing only 3lb. Her weight was never plotted in her chart and a consultant later told me alot of 'red flags where missed by the community midwife'
My second pregnancy seemed to go ok with no major factors apart from being induced a week early as my placenta was showing signs of stoppiing working. My second daughter was 6lb7 i just assumed this was a normal weight. However, they keep mentioning at my appointments that i have a history of small babies and i was given medication to take from 28 weeks. I am now with a different partner with 12 years since my last pregnancy. Alongside baby measuring small, i also had to be monitored for elevated blood pressure and protein in my urine at my appointment but was let go a few hours later. This baby is pretty active so I've started making a note of her kicking routine and ive tried to google any foods that can help to put weight on the baby from within the womb, does anyone have any advice from experience that could help in any way? Obviously i will always do what is safest for the baby but i would prefer to do everything in power to ensure I lower the likely hood of early intervention. Thank you
My second pregnancy seemed to go ok with no major factors apart from being induced a week early as my placenta was showing signs of stoppiing working. My second daughter was 6lb7 i just assumed this was a normal weight. However, they keep mentioning at my appointments that i have a history of small babies and i was given medication to take from 28 weeks. I am now with a different partner with 12 years since my last pregnancy. Alongside baby measuring small, i also had to be monitored for elevated blood pressure and protein in my urine at my appointment but was let go a few hours later. This baby is pretty active so I've started making a note of her kicking routine and ive tried to google any foods that can help to put weight on the baby from within the womb, does anyone have any advice from experience that could help in any way? Obviously i will always do what is safest for the baby but i would prefer to do everything in power to ensure I lower the likely hood of early intervention. Thank you
I don't know if there is any foods that can help baby put weight on as they just get what they need from you, so just making sure you've got a decent diet with all the good fats ectHas anyone had any experience of small babies? My 3rd pregnancy here and baby was measuring on the 10th percentile at 25 weeks, I was already consultant led care due to a history of small babies and my growth scan has been moved from 4 week intervals to 2.
my first pregnancy i had pre eclampsia and despite me expressing concerns to a midwife i was told my swelling was due to the hot summer we where having. Unfortunately as a niave 21 year old i took the midwife at her word and Unfortunately my daughter was stillborn at 36 weeks weighing only 3lb. Her weight was never plotted in her chart and a consultant later told me alot of 'red flags where missed by the community midwife'
My second pregnancy seemed to go ok with no major factors apart from being induced a week early as my placenta was showing signs of stoppiing working. My second daughter was 6lb7 i just assumed this was a normal weight. However, they keep mentioning at my appointments that i have a history of small babies and i was given medication to take from 28 weeks. I am now with a different partner with 12 years since my last pregnancy. Alongside baby measuring small, i also had to be monitored for elevated blood pressure and protein in my urine at my appointment but was let go a few hours later. This baby is pretty active so I've started making a note of her kicking routine and ive tried to google any foods that can help to put weight on the baby from within the womb, does anyone have any advice from experience that could help in any way? Obviously i will always do what is safest for the baby but i would prefer to do everything in power to ensure I lower the likely hood of early intervention. Thank you
As for baby being the lower side, I don't think it matters too much exactly, it's more a case of how they continue along the line. As long as baby stays on the 10th percentile, they don't mind. As long as they don't either jump up massively or drop down rather than the actual percentile that they're on.
The percentiles are based person to person.
So what is 10th percentile for you, may be 50th percentile for someone else or not even 1st percentile for another
God it’s tiring isn’t it
. I feel Iike it’s settled down a bit but I’m still feeling the odd wave of pain and I’m so bloody tiredI only had mine at night until Sunday which was annoying as I was gearing up psychologically and then I was just able to go about my dayGod it’s tiring isn’t it
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