Pregnancy #4

[Lulu Goss]

Screening results back (speedy!)

Down’s syndrome: 1 in 1440
Edwards / Pataus: < 1 in 100,000

Apparently this is not considered ‘at increased risk’ so won’t require further testing.

Was that all done at your 12 week scan? I have mine in a few weeks time.

 

[Stimpii]

Is anyone here on baby number 3 or more?

Interested to hear how your second labour/birth (vaginal delivery) went compared to the first?

My first was three hours start to finish and I’ve had a few people telling me that second time round it will be much quicker which is scaring me a bit!

My first labour was 7 hours in total, 2nd was just over 3 hours, went from 4cm to baby being born in 40 mins so contractions were intense, was induced with baby number 3 but from contractions starting to baby being born was just over 3 hours again.

Contractions with baby number 2 were the most painful out of them all.

 

[Babyyoda88]

That’s so odd! I am always hot and my husband is always cold so if this happens to me it’ll probably be very welcome by him, I never want the heating on and we sleep with a summer 4 tog duvet year round!!

This is me too, I’m usually the one that’s cold but I’m just ridiculously hot all the time

 

[PineappleTopper]

Keep passing it on I spend ages looking for somewhere I could actually find specific information did you end up buying any new skincare? @Sw4 i always read the ingredients as well once I find something as I have committed to it and I agree it is hard to find actual accurate info. I have donated my Charlotte tilbury magic creams to my partner sad times x

No ive not bought anything new. I bought some lovely moisturisers around christmas time and wasnt sure i could use them. Ive managed to get a full routine that is safe to use (by checking this website) from skincare i already own which is fab. My skin feels so happy and nourished. I was only using water and simple Moisturiser after i initally found out i was pregnant. Glad i can use more now as it would have been a long 9 months. Im not 100 % which suncreams are safe to use though (it was lovely and warm last weekend)

 

[Lulu Goss]

Hey everyone, can I ask if anyone experienced cramping in the very early days? I know it's normal but I just want to hear real experiences rather than internet reading! I'm actively avoiding Google!

I had my positive test on Saturday and it was pretty strong. From my calculations and opk tests, my period would likely be due tomorrow. So it's still very early but the fact I have cramps coinciding with my period due day is freaking me out a tad I had an early miscarriage last month, so while I'm thrilled we caught again so soon, I'm on pins now!

I did - so bad to begin with that. I was convinced I was going to come on my period. I’m coming up to 9 weeks now and still getting them occasionally but they’ve settled down a lot. Congratulations by the way!

 

[Definitelyme]

Keep getting sharp pains deep in pelvis coupled with the urge to wee (but no wee there!) Only lasts seconds, is this what it feels like when the head is engaging? I hope so!

You haven’t got long to go now, so could be! Mine didn’t engage until labour so I’ve no experience to share, but fingers crossed!

 

[Lollipop19]

I know someone who had Harmony as they couldn’t do Down’s syndrome screening on the 12 week scan (couldn’t get correct measurements). She got it on NHS as a result but I think it was a covid thing to reduce repeat scan appointments.

I couldn't have the screenings due to baby's position but I just had a blood test that was compared with the measurements they could take and it was all sent off. Only checked for Downs though, not the other ones

 

[Chickenandgravy]

What bottle steriliser do people have? Ive not got a very big microwave so think I'll need an electric one but there's so many to choose from and going by the amazon reviews they're all terrible

 

[WhatABore]

I saw the Sneak Peek one on Facebook recently, I think someone further back on this thread mentioned having it and it wasn’t accurate.

It’s a blood test, so you send it off and if there’s testosterone present they say you’re expecting a boy (because as women we wouldn’t normally have any present) - I think that’s the jist of it anyway, from what I read on the Facebook comments.

Yeah I've read many things about Sneak Peak not being accurate.

I believe Harmony is a lot more accurate! And more in depth

 

[Easilyannoyed]

I know, it’s an expensive risk! I literally have one left which is slightly comfortable so I’ve ordered the same style in a band size up and another one in a band/cup size up and will just return what doesn’t work. I hate underwired and padded bras, wish I could just wear the cheap M&S bralettes but they aren’t supportive enough. I also measured myself using the boob or bust calculator which has an option to include if you’re pregnant and it’ll advise you on sizing!


I think just going to try get away with wearing leggings and baggy t shirts and jumpers for as long as possible, I’m not going anywhere haha. Very glad I don’t need to buy a new work wardrobe or anything like that! I did go to Bravissimo for the bras though as cba with stupid M&S sizing and I know they fit. They’re so expensive though! We’ve looked at ‘travel systems’ and vaguely know what we want, but I don’t feel ready to buy anything yet - maybe after 20 weeks? Anything we do buy will just end up surrounding me in my ‘home office’ so going to try avoid existing in a sea of boxes for as long as I can! Have you chosen a pram yet or any idea what you want?

I really like the egg2 and also the cybex Priam have also seen this really nice one In the spring blossom colour my partner won’t get one until he knows if we have a boy or a girl because he wants to buy a carrier that matches I won’t buy one for a while though just because im Superstitious. Have you seen any you like? X

 

[Easilyannoyed]

Not sure if it's round ligament pain but my vagina area feels like it's been kicked by a horse in the evenings

This sounds grim but does it feel like your bone down there is hurting if no could be what I have pelvic pain xx

 

[Lollipop19]

Definitely not while pregnant. Mine is overdue, due to Covid, and my consultant reminded me at an appointment I need to wait 3 months after birth and then get it done ASAP.

Thank you! Must remember to not only read the top option on Google!

 

[Ilando]

@Lulu Goss @Upintheair83 @Ilando ah I’m so glad it’s not just me feeling a bit anxious about all of it, I honestly haven’t felt too worried about Covid pre-pregnancy but keep thinking about the awful situation which Grace Victory is in it’s just not really worth taking the risk when we’ve sacrificed so much!

I also totally agree about other people passing it on - we have no idea what the risk is and tbh unless you really know and trust those you’re going to be in close contact with I’m not going to be rushing out to the pub in June (obvs probably wouldn’t be anyway but you know!)

the wedding is one of my best friends too and it’s in the south east (I’m in Yorkshire) so unfortunately can’t really pop in for the service then leave! Of course it may not even go ahead but obvs I’m stressing about it a bit already

I’m a teacher so will be taking enough of a risk at work. I’ll have 2 masks and a visor on so hopefully that will be ok.

I won’t be going in any pubs etc. I always knew I was a home bod but lockdown has really confirmed that.

 

[Babyyoda88]

It can be hell, but you will get through. The first trimester is the worst for exhaustion and worry (with cramps etc). I find usually around 11 weeks that bone aching exhaustion isn’t so awful any more. The sickness is a killer if it lasts though. I’m almost 31 weeks and still going. It feels like forever

wow sickness still at 31 weeks, that’s really intense. Bless you. Does it feel like a constant stomach bug?

 

[Gem2212]

Can I ask if anyone uses a birthing ball and if it helps with back pain and how many weeks is it safe to use at? Im 30 weeks xx

 

[Easilyannoyed]

I am also very hot I was very cold for the first few weeks now I feel like a furnace x

 

[Dogwithabone]

This was the prices for my scan photos at my 12 week scan a couple of weeks ago! I know every trust is totally different though.

 

[Icbaaaa]

Hi everyone, I’m 25 weeks pregnant and have just had my midwife appointment. She said that from 28 weeks I should be working from home because I’d be high risk, I can’t do that as I’m a support worker. Has anyone else has this? What did your employer say? Thanks all

I've been in a dispute with my employer for 2 weeks now (im 30+2) and getting no where with them. My manager told me just to get a sickline because they're ripping the piss that much!

 

[WhatABore]

Thanks everyone!

I had the Downs Syndrome etc screening and now I wish I hadn’t. The fact we have to wait for results has now just set off my anxiety. NT was 2.5mm and cause I know that I’m now googling everything.

Googling is the worst thing but everyone does it haha.

2.5 is literally the top and the measurements aren't accurate.
My last 2 children measured 2.8 and 2.9 but screening came back at lowest chance.
I didn't even pay attention this time because I know it sets your mind off.
Even the lady doing the ultrasound said not to worry too much as the way they measure it, the tiniest adjustment on the screen changes it by a massive difference.

Hope it reassures you a little

 

[Vivian124]

@Kitt what time is your scan? You poor thing you're really being put through the ringer