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[noseyqueen14]

was the scan not transvaginal being so early? X

 

[Smallpotato]

I have had bleeding between 4 and 8 weeks with all of mine.
Best thing is to not Google!

I was told to call 111 when I had mine. But I think you can contact the EPU directly? Or at least your GP and they can refer you

Don’t google! Definitely contact 111, and then you can be referred to EPU. I’m thinking of you.

 

[wakametango]

My partner also has a lot of hobbies. If it wasn't for covid and lots of them being on hold, he wouldn't be home on week nights and Saturday He's a bit of a puppy that needs to do aaaaallll the stuffs aaaalll the time. Honestly, I don't know how he does it. If he has a quiet week followed by a weekend in, he gets a migraine
I on the other hand have way less hobbies (the ones I have are mutual with him) and need time off, just to relax.

It hasn't sunken in yet that he might have to quit some hobbies once baby's here.
He's like "ooooh, we'll just have a babysitter over and life will continue as usual".
He doesn't get why I wouldn't want to leave a newborn at home, in the care of some babysitter twice a week Sweet summer's child...

Are we with the same man? If anyone dares tell him he can’t do his hobbies he says his life won’t change and will make he can squeeze everything in
He threw a paddy when I told him his £5k bike can’t stay in our bedroom because the HV will deem it unsafe a d we’ll be flagged up! I’m just going to let things slowly dawn on him…….

Yeah that’s exactly it, I know it’s no fun just staying in but it’s even less fun staying in on your own! My partner played football tonight, and is watching the game out tomorrow night and is already thinking about England getting into the final and where he might watch that can’t wait for the euros to be over haha!

Yesss I feel exactly the same with that too. Not that I used to particularly work out either but even looking at the pregnancy work outs I’m like nope cba! As crap as it is it’s nice to know these are standard pregnancy feelings though x

Mine is out now go karting & at his friends tomorrow for the match then working all weekend! (Works full time too) I feel you! X

 

[Neo2021]

was the scan not transvaginal being so early? X

yes, but this might be me being naive but it didn’t feel like it went far enough in to cause bleeding but I could be wrong? X

 

[wakametango]

Girls, my absolutely nightmare has come true. Just as I was starting to relax after my early scan I’ve just been to the toilet and there was fresh blood. I’m too scared to google it. What do I do?

Are you sure it’s internal? I had fresh blood externally a few weeks ago, after dabbing around I realised I had a cut in between in my inner and outer labia. I still went to triage to be examined by a doctor.
If you call your local hospital’s triage department see if they can help?

 

[Mel17]

yes, but this might be me being naive but it didn’t feel like it went far enough in to cause bleeding but I could be wrong? X

I hope you are okay. I had a transvaginal scan and it caused me to have some bleeding. I would still get it checked out though xx

 

[Smallpotato]

Are we with the same man? If anyone dares tell him he can’t do his hobbies he says his life won’t change and will make he can squeeze everything in
He threw a paddy when I told him his £5k bike can’t stay in our bedroom because the HV will deem it unsafe a d we’ll be flagged up! I’m just going to let things slowly dawn on him…….



Mine is out now go karting & at his friends tomorrow for the match then working all weekend! (Works full time too) I feel you! X

My husband has hobbies but not social ones, he sits and makes robots

 

[Neo2021]

I’ve put a pad on, I’ve cried at Mr Neo and I’m going to see what’s there in the morning and ring the GP and 1, ask why a midwife hasn’t contacted me yet and 2, ask to be seen x

 

[wakametango]

My husband has hobbies but not social ones, he sits and makes robots

Ahhhh a lovely quiet hobby. His home hobby is call of duty and binge eating so in between the fizzy drinks and sweets I hear all kinds of profanities from the living room

 

[Hannah_204]

Ahhhh a lovely quiet hobby. His home hobby is call of duty and binge eating so in between the fizzy drinks and sweets I hear all kinds of profanities from the living room

mine likes to pump weights and grunt loudly and play fifa between reps in his free time so I’ve given him a nice area on the top floor all for him! Bliss

Are we with the same man? If anyone dares tell him he can’t do his hobbies he says his life won’t change and will make he can squeeze everything in
He threw a paddy when I told him his £5k bike can’t stay in our bedroom because the HV will deem it unsafe a d we’ll be flagged up! I’m just going to let things slowly dawn on him…….



Mine is out now go karting & at his friends tomorrow for the match then working all weekend! (Works full time too) I feel you! X

Ahh crap I’ve got the lawn mower in the dining room at the moment

 

[Smallpotato]

Ahhhh a lovely quiet hobby. His home hobby is call of duty and binge eating so in between the fizzy drinks and sweets I hear all kinds of profanities from the living room

Husband plays Destiny, he’s never been a COD fan admittedly! But yes, sweets all over the living room too. Husband and I are both a little bit anti social; I’m not good at socialising and just enjoy my own company but my husband is the most confident person ever but prefers to just sulk at home with me

Just editing this; nursery today rang me saying that they were worried that my little boy said he wanted to be alone today and he sat in reading corner. I explained that we have taught him this, if he feels overwhelmed or he’s had enough of people he can be alone. I do it, husband does it etc, nursery said it was strange. Ffs bore off

 

[Zoe88]

My bf plays a lot of golf and just joined the first team... I said enjoy it this year cause next summer you might not be able to and he was like why??... I'm hoping when he sees the baby in a scan it'll be more prevalent in his mind. My hobbies are knitting, sewing so I'm all good

 

[Smallpotato]

I’ve put a pad on, I’ve cried at Mr Neo and I’m going to see what’s there in the morning and ring the GP and 1, ask why a midwife hasn’t contacted me yet and 2, ask to be seen x

We are all here for you xxxxxx

 

[wakametango]

I’ve put a pad on, I’ve cried at Mr Neo and I’m going to see what’s there in the morning and ring the GP and 1, ask why a midwife hasn’t contacted me yet and 2, ask to be seen x

Failing that be pushy! My GP refused to believe I was pregnant (I needed meds) so I filled in a self referral form at the hospital of my choice and got meds myself.
let us know how you get on tomorrow x

Husband plays Destiny, he’s never been a COD fan admittedly! But yes, sweets all over the living room too. Husband and I are both a little bit anti social; I’m not good at socialising and just enjoy my own company but my husband is the most confident person ever but prefers to just sulk at home with me

Just editing this; nursery today rang me saying that they were worried that my little boy said he wanted to be alone today and he sat in reading corner. I explained that we have taught him this, if he feels overwhelmed or he’s had enough of people he can be alone. I do it, husband does it etc, nursery said it was strange. Ffs bore off

Strange? How rude. I’ve worked in early years for about 5 years in total and actually quiet spaces are encouraged? So much for communication and self regulating.
bore off indeed and do some CPD backwards nursery workers

 

[Neo2021]

This is going to sound stupid but I feel like I’ve jinxed myself.
I’m due February and we were also due to get married the same month. So today I rearranged the wedding for October (our 5th wedding date thanks to COVID messing up the others). And I had an overwhelming feeling I was jinxing everything. And I’m worried I was right.

 

[WhatABore]

yes, but this might be me being naive but it didn’t feel like it went far enough in to cause bleeding but I could be wrong? X

I bled after both transvaginal scans I've had too

 

[Neo2021]

I bled after both transvaginal scans I've had

Thank you for confirming x

 

[LaLaDoDo]

I’ve put a pad on, I’ve cried at Mr Neo and I’m going to see what’s there in the morning and ring the GP and 1, ask why a midwife hasn’t contacted me yet and 2, ask to be seen x

Don’t know if advice is different by trust but I’ve always been told before 16 weeks to go to A&E with any symptoms causing concern - when I spoke to my midwife when I had bleeding (mine was mild - more spotting) she just told me to go to A&E. It feels a bit dramatic and I was reluctant but they took me seriously and referred me straight to the EPU so I could get a diagnosis then and there. I would always get checked out with even the mildest bleed - it is most likely nothing, but best to rule it out for peace of mind. Good luck xx

 

[noseyqueen14]

im sure it will just be from the scan they probably have irritated the inside. Try not to worry!!

 

[Definitelyme]

Just editing this; nursery today rang me saying that they were worried that my little boy said he wanted to be alone today and he sat in reading corner. I explained that we have taught him this, if he feels overwhelmed or he’s had enough of people he can be alone. I do it, husband does it etc, nursery said it was strange. Ffs bore off

Jeez they’d be ringing non stop about my kids it’s normal for kids to want to chill out alone every so often. And great that he can regulate himself so well. It’s not strange at all!