I find it awkward when people mean well but it’s not your style. We had quite a bit of stuff in the early days like dungarees etc and it’s just not by vibe. Wrap over vest and leggings was my go to, and I wish people would ask what you’d like/see what you dress baby in before they offer to buy anything.
The only saving grace is they grow so fast so it’s a godsend that things don’t hang around long
m&s are brilliant though - I love their PJ’s as they have nice motifs but they’re not terribly tacky at the same time, it’s a nice middle ground for a bit of something but not Asda’s bing/paw patrol
I do find boys stuff hard, it’s always diggers, footballs and tractors