NOT sticking up for poppy and her desperate need to mention her 'partner' every 5 mins so we know she's not sad and alone and failing lmao (she is though), but just to say I have nonbinary friends and they definitely vary person by person in whether they identify as masculine or femme; it's not linked to their assigned gender at birth. Like being a woman doesn't mean you're inherently feminine so being NB you can still identify with being more masc presenting or femme presenting. HB clearly identifies with more masculine traits which is okay and normal whether they're NB or not. HB smelling like a musky candle leaves something to be desired thoughWhen is this whale going to tell us why she can now eat so much food after having her stomach shrunk? Sharing yet another massive portion of food and making it as rich as possible. She can't even do simple salmon and veg healthy, has to smother it in stuff.
As for saying she loves a masculine smell, and the candle smelling 'manly' reminded her of her partner. Who does not identify as masculine or feminine I thought was actually quite insensitive of her and she should be promoting their gender preferences not referring to them as masculine or male.