Ah yes, they were on/off for over ten years and the last online interaction was when she went up north while pregnant to see him.
I can imagine his ex-wife would be eager to distance herself from all this, it's madness. Can't lie - the thoughts of those babies in that household with all these hypersexual dynamics going on just hasn't sat right with me at all throughout the weekend. It would make you very uneasy.
I’ve read this whole thread and while I’m quoting you, it’s just because you’re the most recent person to respond on it, not having a go at you in particular but do have some issue with what you said that I want to pick apart -
Polyamory is actually an extremely ethical practice, being open and communicative with partners about struggles with monogamy instead of cheating should be seen as a good thing. Some people are able to do monogamy which is great, good for them. Some are not, and if they can find people who are open to polyamory to have relationships with who get along great, then it can be life changing.
Polyamory is also not about group sex, nor is it typically hyper sexual. I know PJ’s partner is a bdsm model etc, but that doesn’t mean that everything revolves around sex and bdsm in a house day to day to the point where 7 month old kids are exposed to it. They are just normal people who have the capacity to love each other and share their lives with other people also. Why does everyone think it’s about sex instead of companionship and company? That’s a reflection on yous not on them.
The attitude is very narrow minded in general around the topic in this thread, and I wish I was more surprised at it.