yeah she’s definitely lost weight, all credit to her. But doesn’t stop her being an annoying duckI thought so too with recent photos she's posted. Especially the one the other day
don‘t apologise for your comments and can I just say thank you for all the babies you have helped to deliver into this world and the majority of women are extremely grateful for it at what is an extremely wonderful but also absolutely bloody terrifying event in your life ( any woman who said she wasn’t terrified giving birth is a bloody liar )....Long time lurker.
First time commenter!
I’ve tried not to comment for months well because of my job but tonight’s comments on her stories have fucked me off something rotten.
qualified MW here and her comments and her duck all knowledge on midwifery piss me right off. Midwives don’t just spend 3 years at university then a following 12-24 months on a preceptorship for some one who’s read a few books and given birth once preach about an evidence based degree that she knows duck all about.
You go ahead hen and eat your dates and have your perineal massage and hypnobirth and don’t listen to your midwife because of course feebs knows best. You can plan all you want for your perfect birth and I’m so happy you got it the last time but stop trying to lure other women into a false sense of security that there birth will be plain sailing because who’s the woman going to blaim when your stupid obnoxious recommendations go wrong and she ends up with failure to progress and a cat 2 section and maybe piles for good measure.
Not you, but her midwife.
You stupid bleeping arse.
Glad that’s off my chest
Also i just want to point out that I am in total support and advocate for women and it’s there birth, their choice and informed consent is so important, but there are evidence based guidelines and procedures we follow to the core to prevent maternal mortality for a reason.
Most of the vibes that I get from her posts is, please ignore all medical advice given because it’s your baby your birth and listen to moi because I am the font of all knowledge and of course have a medical degree in PREACH. It’s so dangerous and I would never in any circumstances listen to a ‘SW consultant’ on the gram.
Think I have over done it in comments tonight, I apologise.
I find it really strange that she posts a picture of her daughter with her hands down her top. Surely she should be teaching V boundaries and what’s appropriate? Not taking a selfie and posting it on the gram!Hands down her top again from all angles
YesssI don’t get the “flexitarian” thing... surely if you can eat meat and fish when you feel like it... that’s just the same as any normal non vegetarian person so why does it need a label
Yeah I thought this too. Like I’m a flexigymatarian.....sometimes I can be arsed to exercise sometimes I can’t Sounds better than lazy bastard doesn’t it.I don’t get the “flexitarian” thing... surely if you can eat meat and fish when you feel like it... that’s just the same as any normal non vegetarian person so why does it need a label
Me either. I’ve said before about this as my second is now 9wks and my first turned 2yrs last month. We got the “Princess Polly I’m a New Big Sister” book and as soon as I started showing we started reading it to my daughter, pretty much every day! We wanted to prepare her as much as possible as it’s a big change from having all the attention to having a tiny baby around. I think it’s bonkers that she’s not preparing Vesper!!I think that Vesper is going to be a nightmare when the baby comes...seems she rules the roost and is allowed to put her hands down mums top whenever she wants, she is going to have a hard time understanding the massive change, and who can blame her...this is why surely Feebs should have told her by now that theres a new baby on the way? I cant get my head around it
Exactly. She needs to stop with this letting vesper put her hand down her top, she will only do it more when the baby’s here and feebs is ‘boobin ’ what’s she going to do then, tell her no, get annoyed? But it’s ok for her to do it now, why on earth isn’t she teaching her it’s not right and she can’t be doing thatCue all the “OMG whys she behaving this way” posts when vesper flips out when the baby comes
I have to admit the joy I felt when vesper entered the terrible twos was at feebs level smugnessI can’t believe she hasn’t told Vesper that she’s having a baby, I hope for V’s sake that she actually takes the shock really well (although it will piss me off if Feebs gets the perfect reaction from her Smug level 1000)