Iām a similar size and have two. Itās bloody hard work! I know I need to address it urgently to be honest.
Iām sure it is, and you have my sympathy. I have a stone to lose since lockdown and have been ādrawing a lineā every Monday for weeks
Itās hard enough with just a stone- I could probably lose that in a month if I applied myself (shame as canāt
), She must have...what....8-10 stone to lose?
Looking back, I wonder if her motivation for losing the weight was because medical staff had advised her it was likely stopping her from getting pregnant? So she wasnāt really doing it for her if that makes sense? Now that she has her kids, and without a goal that she is motivated by, it seems to me that sheās quite happy being obese and the kids will go the same way.
I have a friend who is obese and although she hasnāt ever managed to get it under control, fair play to her both her daughters (14-23) are perfectly healthy and have good attitudes to food. She worked bloody hard not to pass her
tit onto her kids and although it always bugs me that she can never do it for herself, I genuinely admire her determination to prevent her kids from following in her footsteps. Phoebes is ensuring that history repeats itself, with her over-feeding and making food the main focus on every single thing they do.