Kids quite often learn habits from their parents. So when she's screaming at skateboard and KFC 52 secrets spices and herbs with pure maternal rage, because they won't tidy up after themselves or put things away, she needs to remember that you lead by example! They'll have years of watching their mother behave like a lazy slob (unless it's being filmed for instagram of course) so they'll either add to the mess and filth or be utterly repulsed by it. She won't understand this of course, and certainly won't blame herself!