Phoebe Court #12 Same tit, different name, all the content is still so lame

[WhatABore]

Why’s everything just such a drama.

I used to paddy on the floor to wear my leopard print leggings as a child. My mum would dress me kicking and screaming into something weather appropriate. Why? BECAUSE I WAS A CHILD. If she hates what V wears know what you can do phoebo? DRESS HER!

Do what I do with mine - pick outfits for them to choose from! I give them seven choices for five days. They pick their five outfits on the Sunday and can pick which to wear. It gives choice but also control. But I just get on with it - don’t post about it on SM!

Same with swimming. Pack clean bleeping underwear, swimming cossie, a towel and body wash and off you go. WHY THE DRAMA.

Yess! This is exactly what I do with mine!

Feebs has been giving in to Vesper since she was around 2 i think it was when she started talking about clothes. Just because it was 'easier' than dealing with a tantrum.
She just creates a rod for her own back!

 

[lh01]

I always do this with mine - I say its 'the illusion of choice' - they can pick between two outfits, between two different breakfast cereals etc. You end up with overall control of the situation but they get to exercise some free will

COMPLETELY! At that age they’re too young for autonomy. Give a child a full wardrobe and they’ll pick completely wrong because they cannot comprehend weather, location, activity etc. Give them a choice of flowery leggings or stripy leggings and they’ll choose and think they’re cock of the walk because they ‘dressed themselves’ whilst mummy is also happy they’re weather appropriate and coordinate. Allowing a child to choose their own outfits isn’t allowing them independence it’s lazy parenting and the argument that follows is a necessary one. Mummy knows what’s best to wear, you can choose between Y and Z but X isn’t an option. We can’t wear a dress to play in the snow and tights are inappropriate for the beach.

 

[WhatABore]

COMPLETELY! At that age they’re too young for autonomy. Give a child a full wardrobe and they’ll pick completely wrong because they cannot comprehend weather, location, activity etc. Give them a choice of flowery leggings or stripy leggings and they’ll choose and think they’re cock of the walk because they ‘dressed themselves’ whilst mummy is also happy they’re weather appropriate and coordinate. Allowing a child to choose their own outfits isn’t allowing them independence it’s lazy parenting and the argument that follows is a necessary one. Mummy knows what’s best to wear, you can choose between Y and Z but X isn’t an option. We can’t wear a dress to play in the snow and tights are inappropriate for the beach.

My friend literally let her son out in the snow in Tshirt and shorts because she said it was easier than dealing with a tantrum.
WHAT?!
I don't understand it. You're the parent!

 

[Jimjamjelly]

I think I'm doubly struggling with Feebs posts as I keep seeing my mothers IG handle in her likes and she has on more than one occasion spouted some of her 'hacks'. I was waiting for the bleeping hot dog one to come up but thankfully that must've been a step too far

 

[JSquared]

I always do this with mine - I say its 'the illusion of choice' - they can pick between two outfits, between two different breakfast cereals etc. You end up with overall control of the situation but they get to exercise some free will

I also do this with my boyfriend when it comes to home decor decisions so he feels like he has contributed

 

[bbvf]

What. The. Eff. Was. That. Reel.
Second hand mortification for her.

 

[swipe_up]

stunning

that second pic man
I know it’s an illusion, maybe her hair, but looks like a massive eye

 

[ChubClubThug]

She looks like Bea Smith packing for her latest stint in Wentworth Detention Centre

 

[Twofor]

Christ. She’s forgotten her crusty Tudor bloomers again in the swim bag.

 

[Skye green]

CAN SHE NOT SEE WHAT AN ATROCIOUS NAME HERBIE HOLLIDAY IS.
Honestly what was she thinking

 

[Hastaggifted]

Do we know yet if she was gifted those from stamptastic? I was going to order one this evening but if they've gifted her them they can get stuffed

 

[lh01]

CAN SHE NOT SEE WHAT AN ATROCIOUS NAME HERBIE HOLLIDAY IS.
Honestly what was she thinking

It sounds like something from a carry on film.

They’re lovely kids but they’re saddled with some really questionable names!

 

[Getagripppppy]

Wow I’d never thought to take a towel to swimming. Jumpsuit two days in a row. Can’t F&F send her some new clothes?

 

[Blahblahblah1982]

King Henry posing with her predecessor Richard III in York station

 

[reCAPTCHA]

King Henry posing with her predecessor Richard III in York station

I thought the same! Trolling us by standing in front of the Tudor poster. Bravo Mick

 

[Yorkshirewife]

Do we know yet if she was gifted those from stamptastic? I was going to order one this evening but if they've gifted her them they can get stuffed

Tbh the sheer volume of insta wannabe huns they've gifted on my insta they can get f*cked. I'd rather write their names in lol

 

[Awkwardmam]

I thought the same! Trolling us by standing in front of the Tudor poster. Bravo Mick

To be fair though imagine Nicola Ryan being that ‘witty’

 

[Notforthegram]

Why does every single thing she posts always have to end on such a negative note??Like she will post some lovely pictures of her and the kids but EVERY TIME she will follow it up with 'FYI the weather was tit, I hated every second, Vespa was a head, kids are atrocious, Jim is a miserable bastard, my clothes don't fit anymore, I miss my life before kids, kids ruin everything, duck my life, this is my reality, I'm a raging boobing struggling momma, #mumlife ' WE GET IT having children is hard now get over yourself and try to enjoy some time spent with your family you ungrateful bleep.

 

[Pumpkinspice]

I don’t Understand this moaning wench at all. It’s not that hard taking kids out?!?
ive never known anybody moan as much. I take my 2 lads out all the time and one is a baby one is same age as vesper. Never had an issue with it being stressful. All she says is “it’s so hard isn’t it?”
bore off mick

 

[Esbeepea]

It's absolutely killing her that she's not going away isn't it? You love to see it.