I just really canโt get my head around all this at all..why itโs not being addressed, why not even one person is speaking out..if it was something terrible-surely they would?
I thought it was something v dodgy at first..now Iโm starting to wonder if he is actually ill? Iโm so confused between all these rumours of fallings out and him being a not very nice person and then tweets from people like Dawn French (not anything to do with ITV is she?
) saying how kind he is..itโs the biggest mystery ever
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We have the info from July last year that was posted on facebook and it wasn't made up after Phil came out or anything.
The problem with him coming out and not mentioning his relationship with Matthew (which many people were aware of), is why exactly did he not want to mention this?
Even if the relationship started when Matthew was 16 (not under age), with Phil not wanting to say anything that will fuel speculation that he's been breaking the law and that it may not be the only time.
It could well be that he did not start the affair until Matthew was 18, but we do not know because everything is so hush hush.
In the instagram picture when Matthew was 17 years, 3 months, 22 days old, the problem is that he actually looks much younger so if Phil was seeing him then, although no law broken, it still doesn't look good for him.
I don't think that anyone here is questioning if he did or didn't have an affair with Matthew, this seems to have been verified, the question is when did the affair start, and was it appropriate? because Phil was a patron of the dance studio he was in.
It will most likely all be found out soon enough. If Phil decides to try and lie his way through it, it could be a big mistake for him.
're comment from Strawberry Tart (78) that they can't totally gag the net ...just watched Mahyar Tousi 's new YouTube post saying "Government to censor online speech" ....regulated by ....Ofcom! 
(from about 2.26 onwards)
' cos for 27 years he was still uncertain.... but I didn't think , I knew 
