I think the earth mother thing, which both Paula and Peaches did was some kind of ' fake it til you make it' thing, where they were desperate to tell themselves what great mothers they were but the lure of the addictions was too strong. They had to convince other people in order to tell themselves their kids were fine, even though they behaved as they did.I adored Michael and could never understand why he left Helena for Paula but clearly his head injury was the reason for his decline as well as Paula being more liberated with sex. Think it was quoted in the Mystify doc that he loved the taste of good wines (and women!) and losing his sense of taste must have been shattering as well as everything else that came with it. Was lucky enough to see INXS at one of their last tours and he was still so charasmatic (and beautiful!). My opinion on Paula has never waivered, as much as I can see how intelligent and witty she was, she wasn’t the Earth Mother she made out to be…