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Jaya is old enough, in my opinion, to consent to being filmed. Jaz isn't. The slow zooming in on her face in videos makes me uncomfortable for her. Being rolled out for views on social media is just gross, especially when the child in question can't express whether or not they want to be on camera. There are other ways to show the reality of caring for a child with additional needs. That isn't it.
alot of these people say oh it’s to raise awareness this that and the other but is it really though?
what’s the point of that big asda delivery if all she gets is takeaway
she’s completely overwhelmed
what’s the point of that big asda delivery if all she gets is takeaway
she’s completely overwhelmed
Does she think she's Kylie Jenner keeping his name a secret or something? Makes no difference to me but its obvious she enjoys the comments asking for a reveal.
I definitely remember her saying his name was Reyne too!
yup it’s reyne idk why she’s so secretive as if she hasn’t revealed it before. 
Obviously we don’t know the exact context of the walk but I’d assume Jaya didn’t also go because someone has to stay at home with Jazz. And if that is the case, why doesn’t Jade push Jazz in her wheelchair and Jaya push the buggy?
I think it’s very sad that Jaya obviously has a lot more caring responsibilities than Jade lets on. And instead of getting out and about as a treat they stay in the flat and order takeaways.
I think it’s very sad that Jaya obviously has a lot more caring responsibilities than Jade lets on. And instead of getting out and about as a treat they stay in the flat and order takeaways.
Reyne. So I was on the right track with the KarJenner reference then You're all right, she definitely has revealed it before. So I have no idea why she's not addressing it in the comments instead of continuing to bait clueless people (like me )
It's good that Jaz goes to school because I genuinely don't think she'd end up leaving the flat otherwise.
You're all right, she definitely has revealed it before. So I have no idea why she's not addressing it in the comments instead of continuing to bait clueless people (like me )It's good that Jaz goes to school because I genuinely don't think she'd end up leaving the flat otherwise.
I feel really sorry for her eldest. I’m in a bit of a bad mood today so probs gonna sound really harsh and I’ve said similar before but… I am so flipping tired of people in crappy situations popping out more kids and people acting like they’ve done something noble. You got knocked up by someone (is this baby daddy number 3?), have too small a place to live and struggle already with what’s on your plate and thought the best thing would be to pop out another? It bleeping baffles me! Or is this what happens when you’re used to what you can get from the state? I’ve never claimed anything in my life (I consider this a blessing rather than a flex as I have no issue with anyone claiming) so I wouldn’t have a clue what I could get but some people seem to be so well off not working that sometimes I wonder what the hell is actually available!
I know someone who is also on baby number 3 (third baby daddy) and has a kid with additional needs, she’s off on holiday every couple months, out all the time, designer clothes and she’s a right scrubber. How is it possible?! Why has society also become so relaxed about multiple fathers? I can understand having 2 but 3 and more just shows poor judgement and is unnecessary. That’s another thing and apologise if I offend anyone, I just find it crass as it’s bragged about on social media sometimes and joked about. It’s not funny when your kids are all being treated differently by their different fathers!
I know someone who is also on baby number 3 (third baby daddy) and has a kid with additional needs, she’s off on holiday every couple months, out all the time, designer clothes and she’s a right scrubber. How is it possible?! Why has society also become so relaxed about multiple fathers? I can understand having 2 but 3 and more just shows poor judgement and is unnecessary. That’s another thing and apologise if I offend anyone, I just find it crass as it’s bragged about on social media sometimes and joked about. It’s not funny when your kids are all being treated differently by their different fathers!
I agree with this as a mother of children with two different fathers. People don't realise how hard it can be, the emotional trauma it can cause if one child has a better relationship with their father than the other. It's a struggle that I've been dealing with with my son for years and we're getting through it but it is devastating to watch.
I've got no idea if the children have the same father. But it's clear that either way, she's caused herself at least another 18 years of struggle. I think it's also easy to lose your identity as a mother and eventually, that's sometimes all you can see yourself as. Shes classed as a full time carer and therefore won't be getting a job anytime soon, Jaya is growing up and won't rely on her for much longer, Jaz has carers and she's limited in what she can do for her and how she can parent her. I wonder if the new baby was had with that in mind, even if subconsciously.
I’m sure you do a brilliant job dealing with it and I’m sorry one of them is a douche!
Thank you! It's definitely a whole learning curve!I’m sure you do a brilliant job dealing with it and I’m sorry one of them is a douche!
i think jaya and jaz have the same dad.
i completely get where you’re coming from though.
it honestly baffles me why she had another baby. i don’t think she’s had another baby to claim anything because she seemed to do quite alright even before the baby!
we’re in a cost of living crisis and yet i’ve never seen someone eat so many takeaways and do as many shopping hauls!
jaya sadly is a parent to the baby not a sibling. she has far too much responsibility for someone so young. everyone thinks it’s really admirable and sweet but sadly it’s not. she should be out loving her life , experiencing the world not being an emotional crutch to her mum.
i completely get where you’re coming from though.
it honestly baffles me why she had another baby. i don’t think she’s had another baby to claim anything because she seemed to do quite alright even before the baby!
we’re in a cost of living crisis and yet i’ve never seen someone eat so many takeaways and do as many shopping hauls!
jaya sadly is a parent to the baby not a sibling. she has far too much responsibility for someone so young. everyone thinks it’s really admirable and sweet but sadly it’s not. she should be out loving her life , experiencing the world not being an emotional crutch to her mum.
Could not have said it any better
I really hope social services are involved and I say that not being a witch but because Jaya needs respite and Jazz needs more input in her life than laying in bed watching Disney. It’s neglect at the end of the day, and now she’s added a baby into the mix it’s clear she’s not handling it all very well. I’m concerned to be honest. Obviously it pisses me off, I mentioned before having a child with similar needs we don’t get carers or respite like she does, our child sleeps on Average 3hrs a night and yet we give our child much more fulfilment. I’m not trying to blow my own trumpet but seriously how could you just leave your child like that almost all day? Her only socialisation seems to be school it’s such a shame really sad to see. I don’t know how she didn’t panic thinking if this babe has a complex needs too, then what would she do?.
Hey I also have a child with additional needs who barely sleeps it’s so hard isn’t it.
I Just wanted to send you a hug because it’s so hard. My daughter who is nearly 8 has just started to sleep now up to around 5-6 hours.
From around 18 months old she’s only ever slept around 3 hours a night. You sound like a lovely parent. I find the hardest part of being a parent to a child like this, is the constant worrying of are we doing enough? Am I enough etc? I honestly don’t understand how she just leaves her to be in bed all day. I’ve shown my daughter so much cool stuff and done so many courses to even understand my daughter better. It baffles me that we get these special children and some parents just leave them to it
the thing is she is incredibly lucky to get the carers that she does. i don’t know what it’s like to have a child with additional needs however i am a SENco. i see parents on there knees wanting the extra support and struggling to get it.
i can imagine it’s hard to adapt things for children with needs but it can be done. she has enough professionals to ask for help or ideas. her carers managed to get jas to see santa , christmas parties , activities etc so why
it’s pure laziness