It’s why I won’t have more children. It’s unfair imo. My eldest isn’t disabled but my youngest has complex needs quite similar to how Jazz is, and I’d absolutely love to have another child but it’s just so unfair, being a young carer & a sibling to a complex needs child is a heavy burden. I hope she is also accessing respite because she needs it too, she is still a child
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we can quite clearly see jayas size no need to point her out as obese on here.
it’s sad that at 14 she’s practically the other mum in that house she should be living her life , doing what other teens are doing
i’m sure she feels like she has to be there for her mum etc
it’s sad that at 14 she’s practically the other mum in that house she should be living her life , doing what other teens are doing
i’m sure she feels like she has to be there for her mum etc
I feel bad though because if she’s overwhelmed she’s not got a huge amount of support - she alluded to her nan not coming over for a while, and I don’t think her sisters are that way inclined to be cooking while she’s been poorly. At least her cooking the chicken and salad is a step in the right direction. I feel like in the next few years Jaya will be a little more independent as she and her friends get old enough to do more things alone and hopefully Jade will have gotten herself into a good routine with the kids
Thank you! The same conversation took place a page or two back - why are people so comfortable talking about a CHILD'S weight online? You can't claim you feel sorry or worried for their wellbeing and then in the next breath write something that would be hugely upsetting for any 14 to read about themself, and could potential cause long term damage to their self esteem. Make it make sense.
This is a page for us to discuss Jadie, not the appearance of her 14 child who cannot consent to even being online. You can comment on someone's parenting without discussing the children directly.
This irks me a bit about people - not you, the expectation to be rehoused because they’ve had more kids. There’s a couple on TikTok NirvanaParis and her fella who bang on about being rehoused and talk smack about the council but they knew they lived in a small flat prior to having another kid.
Not to centre myself in the discussion because I know there’s thouands of others like myself but I live in a 2 bed house and it’s not fit for kids (heating isn’t great and the spare room is my office and is small) when I got pregnant a couple years ago I couldn’t afford to move and after weighing up what would be best for the child decided not to go ahead with the pregnancy. But if I had I wouldn’t have been whinging to the council, it would’ve just been my problem to sort. In the same way that people struggle with the child or children they have now, they know not to have more because it would be selfish to the child and their other children so ensure that it doesn’t happen - why are some of us suffering abortions and sacrificing yet others appear to be doing haul after haul whilst expecting the council to solve issues they created whilst being careless. It does irk me. And before anyone says well there should be more funding or whatever, if we all relied on it then the country would be screwed. It’s just annoying how some of us have to prioritise and think before we make lifechanging decisions yet others just seem to do it regardless.
I was simply pointing out something that Jade seems completely oblivious to. To be completely honest her parenting is absolutely abysmal and she should never have got pregnant in the first place. But it’s done now and yet again it’s her other children that suffer.
I can’t believe the amount of people that bang on about what a great mum she is when she’s verging on neglectful in so many ways. Even the poor dog, I can’t imagine he’s been walked in months and if he has it will have been Jaya doing it.
I can’t believe the amount of people that bang on about what a great mum she is when she’s verging on neglectful in so many ways. Even the poor dog, I can’t imagine he’s been walked in months and if he has it will have been Jaya doing it.
The flat is an absolute tip, obviously shes got a newborn but theres just tit everywhere
These posts are coming across so nasty and judgmental, something that Jade herself doesn’t seem to be at all. Would rather see her family realness than the usual fake-perfect families all over the place 
I don’t think anyone is being nasty or judgemental, at the end of the day everyone will have an opinion on people on social media whether it’s a fashion account or a lifestyle account. Yes she seems like a nice person and I don’t think anyone has disputed that. The majority of people who sign up to use Tattle aren’t here to give glowing opinions on everything and everyone.These posts are coming across so nasty and judgmental, something that Jade herself doesn’t seem to be at all. Would rather see her family realness than the usual fake-perfect families all over the place
What I will say is and perhaps she chooses not to film it, and I’m wrong …but it comes across that she doesn’t do much with Jazz. The majority of the time she is in her bed, there are things out there to do with PMLD children you just have to search for it. I think it’s be nice to see her vlog about some day out she’s done that caters to jazz needs.
I have wondered why Jazz is always in bed. I’m aware that specialist seating can be created for her to have a place to sit in while with the family in the main living areas instead of laying flat, often in bed.
She claims Jazz likes to be left alone in bed but I just don’t buy that. Yes, like everyone else, Jazz will enjoy time by herself but I think it’s more likely that she has simply had to learn to be left laying in bed alone because it is what is easier for Jade. I totally understand the strain of caring for someone like Jazz but I get the impression Jade just can’t be bothered with her lot of the time, that’s absolutely not me saying she is a bad mother, I just see a mum that is in over her head so it baffles me as to why she thought adding a baby into the mix would work.
I feel for her having so much on her plate with her health and everything, but she shouldn't be letting her teenage daughter do the night feeds knowing full well she's got to get up for school in the morning. No matter how much she insists she doesn't mind.
exactly what I was thinking, I was taken aback by that. What is she doing letting her child raise her other kids.. cmon now this is ridiculous she needs to give her head a wobblw
Yeah that's a bit sly 
like you say even if the poor girl says she doesn't mind it's not the point she's still in school
like you say even if the poor girl says she doesn't mind it's not the point she's still in schoolabsolutely her daughter should not be doing that
i suppose it’s easier for her to just let her do it.
poor girl as lovely as she is and doesn’t mind shouldn’t be doing that
i suppose it’s easier for her to just let her do it.
poor girl as lovely as she is and doesn’t mind shouldn’t be doing that
It’s not right at all. Poor Jaya. Just because she says it’s ok it doesn’t mean it is - she seems to be very considerate of Jade’s feelings and doesn’t want to hurt her but this is immense pressure. She’s meant to be a teenager and I hope she can get a good education and then move out as soon as she can, I really feel for her as I know from experience and having wasted years of my own life.
She’s selfish. The fact that she’s not even embarrassed to post that her teenager is doing her baby’s night feeds shows that.
she’s extremely fortunate that she seems to have a good care support system in place for Jaz. I know so many people with disabled children who are meant to receive round the clock care for their children but half the time staff don’t turn up, shifts cancelled last minute etc
she’s extremely fortunate that she seems to have a good care support system in place for Jaz. I know so many people with disabled children who are meant to receive round the clock care for their children but half the time staff don’t turn up, shifts cancelled last minute etc
Honestly, I just wonder if Jaya does it because its easier than listening to her mum complain. Speaking from my own experience of helping to raise my siblings, I know I certainly wasn't 'happy' to do it.
I remember doing my siblings night feeds, changing nappies. Rushing back from my bfs house to babysit whilst my mum was at work and my dad could lay in. I look back and think why the duck was I wasting my teenage years doing that? But st the time I was all “ it’s ok mum I don’t mind helping you, you’re my mum it’s fine 
“ She takes the piss. I’ve got a disabled child not to the extent her daughter is but it’s still consuming and takes up every minute of the day helping her, dealing with school etc and I wouldn’t dream of asking the kids to help. I have 4 kids and I’ve always said my kids will not grow up to be little parents how I was. Used to like her but I just think she’s a lazy bastard to be honest. Don’t understand the situations she gets herself into.
“ She takes the piss. I’ve got a disabled child not to the extent her daughter is but it’s still consuming and takes up every minute of the day helping her, dealing with school etc and I wouldn’t dream of asking the kids to help. I have 4 kids and I’ve always said my kids will not grow up to be little parents how I was. Used to like her but I just think she’s a lazy bastard to be honest. Don’t understand the situations she gets herself into.