The photo she shared of Ember just broke my heart, what a beautiful baby. My own baby is 7 months almost and it goes so quickly. I do hope Pea is slowing down and bonding with E.
I read it as Vermin the first time in relation to the food but yes it definitely it says venomDid you just called Raven Venom? Because I am crying
My child bit and hits when she loses her temper. She bites me and her cousin. I think it’s because she knows we will always be there and she is just expressing her frustration. It can be really horrible and embarrassing. She’s pulled toys off other children at the childminders and I got a message about her behaviour. Well, I wanted the ground to swallow me up! I don’t tolerate any hitting or biting from her- but she will still do it in a temper. Line we all do. She’s learning just like your little boy is!My 3 year old bit and hit me and his sister when she was born (I did closely monitor and supervise, moved baby and kept her as safe as I could) this passed after a while. I am fairly gentle and made it very clear hitting and biting is wrong, stopped him physically, said no and have clear boundaries around behaviour (i think!) None of this stopped him as he was working through his feelings and frustrations about the changes. I do think hitting and biting are normal for SOME children and doesn't mean you are a terrible parent if you kid does this.
How embarrassing for that person.So much arse kissing
Incorrect.I absolutely hate people who use food for play. It's disgusting. There are children going hungry and you're using bags of rice for Venom to chuck everywhere. It makes me so mad.
Children don't need food for play. They don't.
That's completely different.Incorrect.
my daughter age 2 has arfid (eating disorder) and we do food play regularly as part of her therapy. Howeverqueen R doesn’t have an eating disorder so no need
Just after 8am and she's already on the messy activities. Jesus Christ. Have a day off woman. Ease yourself into the day, then you won't be burnt out and sobbing at 1pm.
WHERE IS DEAN? HAS HE DIED? HAS RAVEN DEMANDED HE MOVE OUT?
Still wasteful though considering she don’t eat it. So same principleThat's completely different.
I was going to say this! My son also has ARFID and we do food play to encourage positivity towards food.Incorrect.
my daughter age 2 has arfid (eating disorder) and we do food play regularly as part of her therapy. Howeverqueen R doesn’t have an eating disorder so no need
Probably pretending to go to work and merrily cycling away on his bike, then spending the day crying in a bus stop with his hatI thought he might possibly be back at work, but then remembered on one of the GP posts put on here that Pea said he’s been working at home throughout lockdown, but she posted a photo to stories one day of him apparently cycling back from work and getting home. It’s all a bit confusing! But still, WHERE IS HE? it is like he’s just disappeared!! So odd!!
So difficult isn’t it!!I was going to say this! My son also has ARFID and we do food play to encourage positivity towards food.
So friends and family have tried to help? What about Dean? What role does he play in their lives?Long time lurker and first time poster here. So I know Pea through a friend and what you guys see and comment on is basically exactly right. Dirty house, Raven an absolute nightmare - my friend actually winces when Pea takes Raven to their house because she’s just so disrespectful towards her furniture and younger children. She will not accept any help at all, doesn’t listen to advice from anyone, but constantly moans how tired and exhausted she is. Close family and friends are extremely frustrated with her and sick of offering help/advice to then be knocked back. She was “gently” advised to put Raven in her own room whilst pregnant with E to make life easier for her - she didn’t listen. Always knows best and provides a problem for every solution. She’s just bloody hard work and my friend said that she doesn’t want to be helped. So No sympathy here!
Is she close to her family? She used to be close to her mum according to IG anywayLong time lurker and first time poster here. So I know Pea through a friend and what you guys see and comment on is basically exactly right. Dirty house, Raven an absolute nightmare - my friend actually winces when Pea takes Raven to their house because she’s just so disrespectful towards her furniture and younger children. She will not accept any help at all, doesn’t listen to advice from anyone, but constantly moans how tired and exhausted she is. Close family and friends are extremely frustrated with her and sick of offering help/advice to then be knocked back. She was “gently” advised to put Raven in her own room whilst pregnant with E to make life easier for her - she didn’t listen. Always knows best and provides a problem for every solution. She’s just bloody hard work and my friend said that she doesn’t want to be helped. So No sympathy here!
i totally believe this, i have posted before about how i saw them at a market (might have been the fabulous places one). And she was letting R so far out of her sight and she was picking stuff up on other peoples stalls etc and i was cringing as it was so awkward. Nicola was laughing and saying ooooh she looooves balloons etc while she was touching them on someones stall. But the stall holder i could see was getting annoyed with the situation.Long time lurker and first time poster here. So I know Pea through a friend and what you guys see and comment on is basically exactly right. Dirty house, Raven an absolute nightmare - my friend actually winces when Pea takes Raven to their house because she’s just so disrespectful towards her furniture and younger children. She will not accept any help at all, doesn’t listen to advice from anyone, but constantly moans how tired and exhausted she is. Close family and friends are extremely frustrated with her and sick of offering help/advice to then be knocked back. She was “gently” advised to put Raven in her own room whilst pregnant with E to make life easier for her - she didn’t listen. Always knows best and provides a problem for every solution. She’s just bloody hard work and my friend said that she doesn’t want to be helped. So No sympathy here!
LSo friends and family have tried to help? What about Dean? What role does he play in their lives?
That’s just ridiculous, it’s not like Dean is someone on the outside offering advice, he’s her Husband and the Father of her bloody children, parenting should be a team effort not her doing what she wants and ignoring Deans wishes or input, he has a say in how his children are raised. I think she clearly needs to stop being so pig headed and accept some bloody help and actually let Dean parent. If she’s not willing to accept help when she’s got issues, then she should stop bloody moaning is she’s not prepared to be part of the solution!L
The same as the others, Dean tries to help but gets knocked back and then there’s obviously Raven’s “preference” of being with Pea. Not trusted to do a lot by the sounds of it bless him. Pea’s mum is lovely - really nice woman. She offers all of the time but again is knocked back.
Everyone surrounding her is scared to upset her. Frightened to challenge her. Her own behaviour is mirrored exactly in Raven. Pea claims shes a gentle and understanding parent, but she’s not a gentle and understanding adult. Everyone has to do what she wants or she’s not very nice about it.That’s just ridiculous, it’s not like Dean is someone on the outside offering advice, he’s her Husband and the Father of her bloody children, parenting should be a team effort not her doing what she wants and ignoring Deans wishes or input, he has a say in how his children are raised. I think she clearly needs to stop being so pig headed and accept some bloody help and actually let Dean parent. If she’s not willing to accept help when she’s got issues, then she should stop bloody moaning is she’s not prepared to be part of the solution!