Oh no not the slow cooker! How will she serve up her bowls of brown liquid and lentils 7 nights a weekAll we need is for the slow cooker to go bang and that will tip Nicola over the edge
Sorry to hear that you lost your babyI know them...well used to. Dean is honestly such a nice guy - he’s a bit shy. I never really clicked with Pea (knew Dean first).
When they lost Winter I reached out to her and understandably she was devastated. We then lost our baby and I reached out to her again in hope of being able to talk to someone who could relate and offer similar tones of sympathy.
I asked her if she’d like to get together but just got a load of coping mechanism tosh, a feeling that her loss was greater than mine and how I SHOULD be feeling and how connecting on Instagram would help me (I’m just not this kind of person).
I did carry on following her for a little while but then unfollowed her because of the gentle parenting shite (I’m gentle with boundaries) and the constant baby loss triggers. Having lost my own baby, I would put a trigger warning on if I was to ever share photos just because of the emotional wave that I know I get when I come across anything baby loss related. But I feel the photographs are personal to me & my family and they don’t depict that my baby has passed in them but I think baby loss captioning can be just as triggering...
Have been lurking/pondering about posting for a while with knowing them so will just be careful what I say
Although saying that Dean is a nice guy doesn’t make up for the fact he’s notably absent from pretty much everything
Thank youSorry to hear that you lost your baby
I'm so sorry for your loss. I too reached out to her when we lost our first baby and got the same response near enough. Made to feel that her grief for Winter was bigger than the grief I was experiencing. She comes across as incredibly patronisingI know them...well used to. Dean is honestly such a nice guy - he’s a bit shy. I never really clicked with Pea (knew Dean first).
When they lost Winter I reached out to her and understandably she was devastated. We then lost our baby and I reached out to her again in hope of being able to talk to someone who could relate and offer similar tones of sympathy.
I asked her if she’d like to get together but just got a load of coping mechanism tosh, a feeling that her loss was greater than mine and how I SHOULD be feeling and how connecting on Instagram would help me (I’m just not this kind of person).
I did carry on following her for a little while but then unfollowed her because of the gentle parenting shite (I’m gentle with boundaries) and the constant baby loss triggers. Having lost my own baby, I would put a trigger warning on if I was to ever share photos just because of the emotional wave that I know I get when I come across anything baby loss related. But I feel the photographs are personal to me & my family and they don’t depict that my baby has passed in them but I think baby loss captioning can be just as triggering...
Have been lurking/pondering about posting for a while with knowing them so will just be careful what I say
Although saying that Dean is a nice guy doesn’t make up for the fact he’s notably absent from pretty much everything
Thank you & I’m so sorry for your loss tooI'm so sorry for your loss. I too reached out to her when we lost our first baby and got the same response near enough. Made to feel that her grief for Winter was bigger than the grief I was experiencing. She comes across as incredibly patronising
I think a lot of what she does is about the reaction and attention. Don’t be silly! Arms are not required, dangling from the nips will do! She will be able to use those nips as reins soonOne cot sheet is weird. Is she trying to make a virtue out of not having adequate things for a baby? It wouldn’t surprise me if her favourite FB group was full of mothers competing with each other over who has the least amount of stuffbecause you know, they should be in your arms and/or hanging off a nipple 24/7, so why should you need sheets?
Sorry to hear about your baby. I've heard this a few times now, that she's not very sympathetic. I get the impression that it's all about her and her loss unfortunately xI'm so sorry for your loss. I too reached out to her when we lost our first baby and got the same response near enough. Made to feel that her grief for Winter was bigger than the grief I was experiencing. She comes across as incredibly patronising
I would say not having a washing machine with a toddler and a newborn is pretty shit and an actual problem.I just had that on loud and said to my husband what do you think of her and he said
She sounds like a turd .
First world problems.
Who is she trying to appeal to
It is, but when you have a support network available to you, as Pea does, it's a problem with a solution. The time she spent recording herself moaning about it could have been spent phoning her Mum and asking her if she could do a load of washing for them.I would say not having a washing machine with a toddler and a newborn is pretty shit and an actual problem.
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