Oh, ok, I missed that post so I take it backHaha, unfortunately I contributed to this thread earlier about the twats living above us who use our garden as their wheelie bin.I've never had a Tattle post that's had as many reactions.
Pleased to report that we're due to move in a month though.
What a weirdo. Get proof of this...video recordings, voice recordings and keep a diary of events. Phone non emergency police and report it, she could be done for harrassment.
That’s good advice as it is harassment. Hope it gets sorted.
I know it might be a stupid question, but have you ever had a conversation with her to find out what the issue is? Often before any action is taken you’d need to establish that you’ve tried to resolve the problem yourself and attempts to do so have failed.
Could you put something on your side of the fence blocking her view of you in the slats? Maybe some sort of plant?
Yes that is definitely weird. You're probably best building up a log of her actions. If you confront she'd probably thrive on the drama.
Could this maybe a mental health issue? Our neighbour has schizophrenia and can suffer symptoms very similar to this.
Just start blasting out the air horn each time she is by the fence. Soon stop doing itLol! Love that one Tree_ !!
We have tried to find out what we're supposed to have done, but she ignores our attempts at trying to be civil, just ignores us.
I have logged everything right from the beginning, have CCTV also, but the police just don't do much at all. It seems to be because she hasn't actually DONE anything, like shouting at us or damaging anything, then they can't do anything. But yeah, it does feel like harassment now.
We've put trellis up to block her view at the top, but she stands really close to the fence with her nose practically up against it to see through the slats. It's like a 60ft long fence so that'd be a lot of plants! I do have plants but most are deciduous so right now it's more noticeable.
I was out in the garden yesterday and i was on the phone and I spotted her stood about 2ft from me just watching and listening to my phone call. It's not like I was saying anything interesting, either!
She doesn't work, so she's at home all day every day. I dread the summer
Yes, as others have said, she is harassing you.
Can you put something like polyfilla in the gaps so she can't see in?
You could grow some evergreen shrubs along the fence. Things like Yew, Cypress, Laurel, Hebe. If she hasn’t got anywhere to see in, she might end up leaving you alone.
Newer buildings are the worst for thin walls. I’ve lived in a few over the years and could always hear my neighbours.
Not sure why they didn’t predict this when they set it all up. Anything bigger than a small car driving past also sets at least the bloody lights off.
it wasn't just a telling off it was a very frightened little boy not moving a muscle being screamed at in his face whilst the mum had her back turned and facing the garden hedge not moving. It would be funny if someone did a moony in front of her camera.My sister-in-law lives on a terraced street with no front gardens, the type that you have the front door opening directly onto the public pavement. Her neighbours have a ring camera plus motion sensing lights and asked her to please ask her guests (this was pre-pandemic obvs) to either cross to the other side or approach from the other end of the street because someone merely walking past on the pavement triggers their camera and lights.
The first time we visited after she told us, we were so tempted to walk past flicking the Vs at it but restrained ourselvesIt would be funny if someone did a moony in front of her camera.
. They seem perfectly fine neighbours other than that but I just don’t get why they’d do that in a terrace if they’re bothered by people walking past triggering it.
Definitely wanking as he was a loner.
