Hi friends... bit of a moan from me.
Long story short - I've had a terrible time of late. Poor health (I have multiple health problems), death of a relative, breakup, employment issues. Literally nothing is going right :-(
I had developed a fairly convivial friendship with a neighbour but have always kept her slightly at arms length as, if I'm really honest, I don't quite trust her. Not sure why, just a gut instinct.
Well, today, I apparently didn't give her an adequate enough greeting when I saw her in her car in the street. I said hi but I accept I could have been 'more' chatty/friendly. (For info - she does know some of what I've been going through lately, mainly related to relationship breakup.)
Got a text this afternoon having a massive go at me - apparently I confused her sons, and didn't give an adequate greeting. I apologised and said I didn't mean to do a face, and kind of left it there, but then she kept pressing the issue. She said I 'acted like I didn't know' them and that the 'look' I gave her was "not ok".
I then thought sod it - gave her the full gamut of what's been going on including that I might need hospital treatment. She took ages to respond but then said she was "ready to talk when you are". No 'sorry to hear about XYZ', nothing.
I live only a few yards away from this person. My question is, do I cut her out completely (my preferred option as she's not a good friend), or do I try to keep it civil until I can move away from the area which is my longer term plan once I get a job sorted?
SHe's a very needy/clingy type and I don't think she has many friends. She has talked about us going on holiday before but I barely know her. I think her reaction to me today was a symptom of that... if someone I was friendly with seemed down, I wouldn't assume they hated me.
I'm trying to be more boundried (may have given away too much info about my personal situation) but she really pushed me and I have so little energy at the mo both mentally and physically.
Any advice greatly appreciated.