I feel it hard to judge someone from all you see online - The Inghams literally post everything online far too much honestly but I feel with Hannah and other tiktokers we judge their parenting for what we see. Hannah seems to have a great relationship with her kids and honestly Ben seems like a Good stepdad and dad to the kids.
All parents are different, I feel if you swear around your kids and you jokily swear it creates better boundaries for swearing and a relationship.
All the adults around me swore and because of that, I knew it was for grownups and was enabled the same privilege of swearing when I reached an appropriate age. Hannah prides herself on being real and to me, that's exactly what she is, unfiltered and real. she puts her emotions on the platform she doesn't censor her language. I like that, she shows that not every day is perfect that not every moment with your kids is sunshine and rainbows, and whilst many judges her for her approach to her kids I find it refreshing.
It's not the perfect unachievable Instagram family but it's a real family that has a real relationship and honestly to Hannah and Bens credit that is what a family should be.