I think this is a trait of people who are unfulfilled: they think the next trip abroad/ handbag/ car/ house/ coffee machine (Alfie Deyes, I'm looking at you there) is going to provide them with happiness and fulfill them, but once they have it, it's back to square one with feeling unfulfilled. Niomi seems to want to escape her life and new flat at every opportunity. In a way, I feel sorry for her "all smoke and mirrors" life that she leads.
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I can't feel bad for her because she's just so damn privileged. She's depressed? Ok, she has the time, money, and ability to go to therapy and sort herself out. She's unfulfilled? She has the time, money, and access to career coaches to sort herself out. She's bored? She has the time and money to do/go/learn literally WHATEVER she wants. She wants to be a chef? A designer? A florist? She could do all these things. She wants to learn astrophysics? Unlikely but if she fancied it, she could. This "career" of her gives her so much money and free time that she could turn into opportunities and even into content. But she chooses to remain the same, shallow, boring person.
She's obviously struggling mentally but there's absolutely nothing keeping her from seeking help and moving past this. Most people would love to have all the chances and opportunities she squanders.
She's obviously struggling mentally but there's absolutely nothing keeping her from seeking help and moving past this. Most people would love to have all the chances and opportunities she squanders.
Exactly. Like the training she did to become a qualified yoga instructor. She's done nothing with it.
She's about as useful as a chocolate teapot.
OT but got to say, fair do's to Bradders for moving into and kitting out his new flat without freebies/ads/aff links/fuss. I actually quite like the look of it. Am I basic? 
For sure Joe is winning. Away from social media shitshow she gracefully delivers all the time, eating his favorite pizza without judgment, sleeping as much as he wants and doing something inspiring. But most importantly, he does not share it with anyone beside his close friends and family and I think that part hurts her even more because the longer he is dead silent, the more she goes lunatic and mental on IG.
Like bish HE CLOSED THAT EFFING CHAPTER and for sure is not spending the time on SM! Go search your other fiance victim on your private account.
She is so dumb looking for approval from strangers comments on ig. She is acting like a 16 years rich spoiled teenager. It is really repulsive.
Yeah I totally agree. All I meant was I think Niomi thinks this is what winning looks like to other people. How wrong she is.
This was the title, I checked my history, they changed then edited again and took out capital letters
They edited a whole lot out! Wonder why they did that? It's a mystery! They always remove the CAPS. I've noticed that happening before.
Lol, what I want go know is why Forky is furnishing this place from scratch? Like, why didn't he move anything from his old place? Is he planning on maintaining two London residences? This dude must be loaded!OT but got to say, fair do's to Bradders for moving into and kitting out his new flat without freebies/ads/aff links/fuss. I actually quite like the look of it. Am I basic?
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you’re so right; I completely agree that the longer he stays off social media, the more obsessed she becomes with him not caring. Everything she posts is for HIM, and he isn’t even there to see it. She probably thinks he’s stalking her on a fake account or something, but I’m sure he’s never once checked her socials since the breakup.
Also, I think that even though she’s clearly trying to “win the breakup”, she’d STILL take him back in a heartbeat if he offered
You know Freddie is checking, though, and reporting back ho him!
He must be! I remember seeing a listing for his flat and it was 42k a year to rent. And that's not including service charge.
im sure that if they do discuss her social media escapades, they don’t have good things to sayYou know Freddie is checking, though, and reporting back ho him!
certainly no one is going, wow Niomi really changed for the better and she looks sexy too! Joe, you sure you don’t wanna text her back? 
Oh for sure she would take him back, because the thought of the marrying rich as socialite and the big luxurious wedding itself is stronger than the prospect to be with a love of your life which by the way she never said he was. He was always like object for her big idea of being a happy wife. She forgot happiness should be on BOTH sides.
Oh, for sure. He might be new to most of us but he trained Premier League footballers and probably charged fortunes to train people just for the sake of saying your trainer trained X famous person.
Maybe he did keep his old place as a fully furnished rental or AirBnB or smth... or maybe he just sold/gave away all the old stuff and wanted to strat from scratch.
I like the apartment, nice view, and good open plan. The decor is very standard well-off dude living alone, all neutrals and functional, which is not a bad thing.
Well we know for sure that she was checking since she was blocking comments about Anna.You know Freddie is checking, though, and reporting back ho him!
Oh, is he renting? I thought I saw it mentioned on here that he owns both places. In any case, he's clearly not short of a few bob!
I think she’d be closer to “winning the breakup” (if there’s such a thing), if she kept her Kate Middleton wannabe look, maybe even polished it up even more, and then did a whole lot of meaningful work like giving back to the community, creating some kind of passion project / philanthropy project, channeling all that manic energy into something worthwhile.
Some serious therapy with a licensed professional would help her actually heal; she wouldn’t be spilling the tea on all the podcasts, etc. It would look like she’s getting through the breakup gracefully. People would eat it up, she would be praised on social media, and maybe thennn dreamy Joey would feel any sort of regret about breaking it off.
I wish she would see herself from the outside right now and realize how desperate she’s acting because it really didn’t have to be this way.
Some serious therapy with a licensed professional would help her actually heal; she wouldn’t be spilling the tea on all the podcasts, etc. It would look like she’s getting through the breakup gracefully. People would eat it up, she would be praised on social media, and maybe thennn dreamy Joey would feel any sort of regret about breaking it off.
I wish she would see herself from the outside right now and realize how desperate she’s acting because it really didn’t have to be this way.
Yes to all of that! I really think if she did some kind of philanthropy project or gave back in some way that would also help her heal and move on immensely, she'd start to cultivate a stronger sense of self and identity that wouldn't be rooted in her appearance. She pushes the idea of self care and self love as being selfish and indulging in like beauty treatments and expensive food and products but I think helping and serving others, focusing your energy outside of yourself is probably the best form of self care. But I don't think she has the self awareness or emotional capacity to change or do something for others without the promise of praise and recognition.
Just seen her latest Instagram post - is it concerning the amount of rib on show? Idk much about health tbh and feel wary bringing it up in discussion because it’s extremely sensitive. She’s always been petite but recently seeming even smaller, hopefully not restricting too much
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