Don’t give Niomi a pass because she pretends to be sustainable lol. She has plenty of controversy around her, pretending to care about sustainability while working for Gleam.Also that tiger pic on her Facebook, one of her friends mentioned how controversial the pic was 5 years ago and she still didn’t take the pic down. Obviously thought the pic was. I feel like she lives the thirsty made in Chelsea party privledged lifestyle. At least Niomi pretends she is sustainable and cares about others /environment
Point taken! And I wasn't specifically referring to your post, just the general tone of some posts - but I totally get what you're saying, you're right! Also it's interesting to just see the different perspectives.Sorry you seem to have read that in my post. That's not how I meant it at all. I think he 100% strung Niomi along, whether wittingly or unwittingly. My post was in response to the previous one saying it seemed like he doesn't know what he wants. And what I'm saying is that, based on how he's acting now post-breakup, he wants to have fun and not settle down. I didn't qualify it as good or bad, just described as what I see. This is what he seems to want and to be thinking based on the limited information I have.
best post everI think that anybody who spent 4 yrs with a money mad, controlling unintelligent gleambot who spent every minute of the night and day with a camera strapped to her hand, unwrapping free gifts galore and then said, 'I'm not an influencer. No, not me', would have the scales fall from their eyes pretty quickly. I think Joe woke up and said, 'ENOUGH!!'
Unbelievable how shellfish people can be. It could have closed your pub down and lost your trade if anyone had caught it for them. If I had heard that they had just had a test I think I would have asked them to leave immediatelyYou are meant to isolate until you get your results but doesn't always happen. I work(ed) in a ruralish pub in SE England and after the first lockdown during the period that we're all trying to do our best with all the regulations in the summer we had a couple come in and after being in the pub for 2 whole hours they were talking about how they aren't really from round her but popped in after going to get tested nearby because they'd both just come back from Spain yesterday and the wife needed to get back to her job as a carer. No intention to follow their quarantine, no intention to wear a mask or follow any of our rules.
My jaw about hit the floor to be honest I could not believe the selfishness of them. The amount of antiviral spray and wipes and any cleaning product I had to hand that I used on all the surfaces after they left you'd think I was scrubbing a crime scene.
Agree. In her defence, I think the heartbreak video was bought on by finding out about dreamy Joe hanging out with Anna. She probably felt so stupid mourning the loss of a relationship thinking he too was suffering only to find out he had ‘moved on’. He wasn’t just drinking coffee and eating Sarnies in Pret (as one Tattle observer saw)I think the fact she has unfollowed Desmond and Dempsey and Jess Woodward no longer follows means something as others have said. I wonder if fall out from her video about heartbreak.
Post break up he was sitting in a nearby pret on his laptop drinking coffee and eating sandwichWhat did the tattle see?
I can’t speak to the stuff about the Woodwords but I think your last 2 paragraphs are definitely a likely scenario!I agree, I don’t think his family had a problem with Niomi being an influencer. Like you said, Dreamy Dad is a ‘sir’ because of rugby, his family’s posh but not the poshest in all the land.
Also, not to bash Joe’s family, but I follow rugby a bit and Sir and Lady Dreamy would honestly show up to the opening of an envelope. Granted, a fancy, wax-sealed envelope—not the sweaty, probably-found-on-the-floor-of-the-Tube type of envelope that the likes of Tanya Burr would show up for—but still, his family clearly appreciates the value of ‘networking.’
I disagree though that Joe might have had a problem with Niomi’s disingenuousness. For one thing, I think his recent interactions show that he’s not necessarily the most picky in the company he keeps. For another, I do not think Niomi is remotely as sanctimonious and saccharine in person as she is on social media. She’s pretentious and has issues with food IRL, surely, but I think Glitch in the Gleambot showed that a great deal of her ‘rah-rah sustainability smoothie bowl headstand’ persona is an act.
IMO, his issue with her being an influencer might’ve been more personal. He’s painfully camera shy and clearly did not enjoy having her camera shoved in his face at all times, especially not when he’s tired or had just forcibly run a 10K or whatever. If the influencer thing played a role in the breakup, I think it might’ve been the vlogging that did it for him.
Yess same thought when i saw Zoe!Orange is the new black huh?I can't be the only one who thinks this looks atrocious lol?
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I definitely think it might’ve been a sore point.I can’t speak to the stuff about the Woodwords but I think your last 2 paragraphs are definitely a likely scenario!
I wonder if maybe Joe said something harsh out of frustration of losing his job, and having the camera constantly in his face, and took it out on Niomi. Like something along the lines of “how could you understand what I’m going through? You’ve never had a real job, you’re just an influencer” - which prompted the “I’m not an influencer” video. I mean, he’s got presumably dealing with the worst aspects (lack of privacy/personal life) of influencer life on top of having a “real” job (pre-COVID)
i agree — I got really sad and emotional at that part too, yet at the same time I felt really conflicted. Like why share such an intimate detail? Or I understand saying she was crying, etc etc, but why mention that her family was crying too, and even Paul was crying? lol it just kinda felt like a cheap shot at sympathy and also a violation of privacy of her family? Maybe I’m way too sensitive about this kind of stuff, but I feel like some things are private and not meant for the whole world to knowThe stuff about wedding dress shopping and crying in the tent with her sister and being embraced by her family while falling apart was heartbreaking (I cried when I watched that) but not something I personally would’ve shared with the world, and I’m not even as private on SM as Joe is.
I absolutely agree. Hey, perhaps we are too sensitive, but I think, from the fact that Joe and his sister (potentially, if they weren’t soft-blocked, which I don’t think they were as it would’ve then removed all his likes, not just the most recent ones) both unfollowed her very soon after she posted that, they probably share the sentiment that it was ‘too much.’i agree — I got really sad and emotional at that part too, yet at the same time I felt really conflicted. Like why share such an intimate detail? Or I understand saying she was crying, etc etc, but why mention that her family was crying too, and even Paul was crying? lol it just kinda felt like a cheap shot at sympathy and also a violation of privacy of her family? Maybe I’m way too sensitive about this kind of stuff, but I feel like some things are private and not meant for the whole world to know
Yep, I think so too, and I’d certainly be annoyed if I was Joe’s sister. There was an unspoken implication in Niomi’s video: “look Joe— you’ve hurt not only me, but my entire family”.I absolutely agree. Hey, perhaps we are too sensitive, but I think, from the fact that Joe and his sister (potentially, if they weren’t soft-blocked, which I don’t think they were as it would’ve then removed all his likes, not just the most recent ones) both unfollowed her very soon after she posted that, they probably share the sentiment that it was ‘too much.’
I totally agree. Hard times are really telling about the strength of a relationship. It's something you can also see in case of loss of health.loss is one of those things that tests a relationship and shows how someone is in the hardest times, and she proved her selfishness would not waiver even in a deeply depressing time for him. she navigated his loss as selfish as ever, head in the clouds, and that surely would've been an eye opening moment for him.
yeah if a relationship cant survive trauma, health wobbles or change then it should not even consider a huge commitment such as marriage.I totally agree. Hard times are really telling about the strength of a relationship. It's something you can also see in case of loss of health.
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