.... and if hers was, the kids, I'm sure, witnessed and heard a hell of a lot too. It's horrible as a kid, as I'm sure so many of us on here know, when there is fighting or any kind of instability like that. I hope for healing for them and that, whilst it would have been impossible to shield them from everything, that maybe the worst of it, they somehow weren't aware of, though that's probably naive.Yes. I'm not proposing that he did anything. But in his first interview he never even referred to her by name and it's like he's treating this as her having done a bunk to 'spite' him in some way. There is lots of stuff online about his use of the word 'angry' when he was asked on camera to describe how he was feeling. It's a strange description. Bereft, devastated, confused etc etc but anger? Anger at NB showing him up? Or that she's pulled the wool over his eyes? His adamant statement that she is '100% not in that river'.
I reckon the domestic situation was untenable and utterly miserable (the financial situation, his prolific viewing of titties) culminating in some terrible event on the 10th of January. I still want to know what the cops mean that it's still under investigation and no arrests have been made as of yet.
From reading between the many blurred lines it seems like her home life was really horrible. The poor thing.
I was told all the time that I was manipulative, selfish and never listened.Someone once spent a long time telling me that I was a narc. That person was so determined to make me believe it. That person told me over, and over, and over again that I was selfish and self-absorbed and only cared about myself. So many times that I believed it.
If you hear something enough from someone close to you, you start to question what’s up and what’s down.
Ron now knows Paul's name like we all now know Paul's name, Penny who found the phone asked Ron if she knew the names of Willow's owners as he said he only knew their faces because he recognised them from seeing Nicola and Paul on previous dog walks, Ron used his own phone to call his wife and Penny spoke to his wife on `Ron's phone to see if she knew the names of Willows ownersI watched Ron’s interview. I’m so sure mr fluffy dog was a white dog but I don’t know why I think that so I could be wrong. So who is Ron and why did Penny, who is the campsite owner call Ron’s wife? Why are they all calling each other? - also he seems to say he stayed there until the police arrived. He may just be giving a summary of events as they have been reported but his choice of words implies that to be the case. Similirly he says he doesn’t know the dogs owners names and then at the end he says ‘Paul arrived’. Very odd. Why refer to him by name if you don’t know him? I would probably say ‘her partner’ or whatever. But his name? Hmm. Seems strange and doesn’t really match with the other reports I have read.
Can some helpful Tattler post a pic of where Blackpool Lane is on a map?Blackpool lane is what Garstang Road becomes as it goes past the church etc.
So yeah, the main road just a different name.
Yea post 81Can some helpful Tattler post a pic of where Blackpool Lane is on a map?
That area is right where she went missing from and an area of river that has been searched repeatedly (at least I think it is anyway). That makes me consider two things:Here it is
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It's beyond shocking if this turns out to be the caseJesus christ could she have been that close all this time.
If in the water, yesIs this part of the area that Peter searched?
Do we know if the police are in the fields or at the river?
Thanks. Garstang road turns into Blackpool Lane around the bridge area, we saw Nikki's friends holding up placards I believe just the other side of bridge next to the pub. Nikki was parked on Hall Lane?Here it is
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I'm not sure it would be that shocking. Statistically, her being close by was the most likely conclusion.It's beyond shocking if this turns out to be the case
It 100% doesI was told all the time that I was manipulative, selfish and never listened.
That generally came after I'd challenge a story he'd told that's I knew to be incorrect. He'd tell me that I made things up to make him look bad and how I'd lie just to make sure I was right.
It fucks with your head and somedays, like you, I didn't know what to think
Still now when I'm discussing options for various things or normal conversation putting my point across I question if I'm being manipulative when it's just normal conversation.
Their shit really sticks with you.
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