yes it was horrible! although I think Nicola's family may have went along with a charade for fear of having their grandaughters withheld from them.
- Status
New to Tattle Life? Click "Order Thread by Most Liked Posts" button below to get an idea of what the site is about:
Yes. I'm not proposing that he did anything. But in his first interview he never even referred to her by name and it's like he's treating this as her having done a bunk to 'spite' him in some way. There is lots of stuff online about his use of the word 'angry' when he was asked on camera to describe how he was feeling. It's a strange description. Bereft, devastated, confused etc etc but anger? Anger at NB showing him up? Or that she's pulled the wool over his eyes? His adamant statement that she is '100% not in that river'.
I reckon the domestic situation was untenable and utterly miserable (the financial situation, his prolific viewing of titties) culminating in some terrible event on the 10th of January. I still want to know what the cops mean that it's still under investigation and no arrests have been made as of yet.
From reading between the many blurred lines it seems like her home life was really horrible. The poor thing.
Does Nicola even have a drinking problem? Who can confirm this order than paul? Have her parents been witness to it or has Paul spun them this story and because Nicola hasn't been herself (because of him) and the fact she is of perimenopausal age they've just believed him? If she does have an alcohol issue, maybe he's drove her to it?
That's just it. There has been silence from that camp bar one friend who said she absolutely does not have a drinking problem and is a good Mum. 
yes Paul has leaked to MWT (although the narrative has been it's a friend or member of the public MWT has went to the police telling them he intended to leak it to the newspapers and forced the Police's hand,
Ok all the mammarys took me off course and I have been watching this. Lots of video of the vid maker walking her springer along the river, that bank looks bloody steep when you see people trying to walk down it. It's steep enough to give me the whirlies (scared of heights.) You can see the gate with the dog sniffing round it clearly and the patches where there are holes or chicken wire to see the area's willow could of slipped out of. The vid also covers the interview with fluffy dog man and some of the earliest statements trying to work out where the 'phone was on the ground' info came from. There's some faffing with the vid makers dog harness to test out some theories of why/when Willows harness came off. Ron/Mr Fluffy Dog maybe married to Penny campsites sister btw. Who the feckity saw the phone on the ground/floor!?
Is anyone on dating sites? What do people use nowadays? Or is that a stretch?
This !
If there's a family, I don't think we've heard anything from them. They could prefer to not be involved.
In any case his parents/family know him very well...
+
When it all started I noticed Nicola's parents didn't mention Paul that much.
You can be in a relationship with someone your parents don't estimate that much -for many different reasons- and it's not impossible this could be the case for them. Not something they'd express to the media IMO.
The Police just don’t take one person’s word for anything.
The SIO on the case is a woman - and a woman of a certain age, at that - does anyone looking at Becky really think she would just take a bloke’s word for the fact the missus had gone a bit woo?
You could have a point, and that's why I'd love to know the order of her vulnerabilities being shared. Was it that MWT got it from the inside, or did Paul speak out about her struggles first? The statements all collided as its so unclear.
If it was Paul, then it's him projecting everything onto Nicola so people look there. After all, before that all eyes were on him. Even after Boss witch Becky spoke on the PC about them not looking at him, still a huge amount of people were looking at him as being involved somehow, not necessarily as killed her, but his actions have got her to this point.
Projection is classic narc behaviour
Exactly, they’ll also have access to everything that was said by both Nicola and Paul on the 10th January and what the police officers who attended observed.
I thought it was reported in the early stages that Nicola’s sister was living in the house to help with the 2 girls? (As in after she went missing, not before).
in fact, wasn’t it even ‘speculated’ that this meant there had been carryings on?
Seems to be a helicopter up
I’ve just checked if Paul was working 9-5 USA 
time , that is 2pm -10pm uk 
time.
So it looks like Nicola was doing the family evening shift too :-kids home time, teatime, bath-time and bedtime reads all by her self as well as the morning shift. Poor Nicola
time , that is 2pm -10pm uk time. So it looks like Nicola was doing the family evening shift too :-kids home time, teatime, bath-time and bedtime reads all by her self as well as the morning shift. Poor Nicola
Her parents Ernie and Dot have bravely spoken about Nicola having significant issues around alcohol when she was younger,
Nicola recently came off her HRT therapy due to side effects and had returned to alcohol as possibly a way of self medicating, she was also suffering from terrible 'brain fog' .
(Nicolas medical history will have been checked so this can be taken as fact and of course there's nothing for her to feel ashamed about ) Hope this helps .
Woah things have taken quite the turn. 
I doubt Paul will be challenged about any of it though. He may not have been physically involved in her disappearance, but it doesn’t mean he wasn’t mentally which is harder to prove.
I think the family are responsible for the media mess, but the police are being blamed.
I doubt Paul will be challenged about any of it though. He may not have been physically involved in her disappearance, but it doesn’t mean he wasn’t mentally which is harder to prove.
I think the family are responsible for the media mess, but the police are being blamed.
Very sad how many of us can relate to the controlling man narrative. I was with a guy once that counted how many biscuits I would take from the jar (didn’t want me putting on weight) and was a total perv on social media. Told me what to wear. Didn’t like me wearing makeup. Would gaslight me to the high heavens and I found escort sites on his laptop when I needed to use it one time (naughty me for looking at his history but I had a gut feeling he was up to all sorts) of course it was my fault. Men can suck SO bad, even the ones who aren’t overtly abusive are still jerks that make us question if we’re good enough. And what do they have to offer? A receding hairline and lies
There are a couple of other leaks I have been keeping my eye on, one referred to an argument in their garden which made me think it had to come from one of their neighbours.
Very valid points being raised about P's family and male friends. Has he been married before too?
---
I hope you now eat as many biscuits as you damn well choose. I am known to devour a packet of jammy dodgers within an hour, they are so dunkable!
I don’t think he works those hours though? He said he starts work at 10am and has an hour to himself in the mornings.I’ve just checked if Paul was working 9-5 USA
So it looks like Nicola was doing the family evening shift too :-kids home time, teatime, bath-time and bedtime reads all by her self as well as the morning shift. Poor Nicola
Which he may or may not use to look at titties
I questioned this before. Why does PA not do the morning routine usually as he has every morning free. So you've got Nicola dealing with the kids in the morning. Then you've got her parents watching the kids a little longer in the evening so she can do a work call. So that excludes PA again from the evening shift. When and where is he pulling his weight? I think he's so laid back he's a nightmare to live with and have to rely on, wakes up whenever he feels like.I’ve just checked if Paul was working 9-5 USA
So it looks like Nicola was doing the family evening shift too :-kids home time, teatime, bath-time and bedtime reads all by her self as well as the morning shift. Poor Nicola
Is even nonchalant about her being missing ffs if there's ever a time to not be laid back, it's now
- Status