Nicola Bulley #14

[Boring Monday]

yes Paul has leaked to MWT (although the narrative has been it's a friend or member of the public MWT has went to the police telling them he intended to leak it to the newspapers and forced the Police's hand,

Mark Williams-Thomas is a complete sneak.
as Nicola’s friend posted saying what an all round wonderful chap he is, and how he should have been involved sooner I would be wary about pointing The finger with absolute certainty at anyone.

 

[InTheDollsHouse]

Projection is classic narc behaviour

Someone once spent a long time telling me that I was a narc. That person was so determined to make me believe it. That person told me over, and over, and over again that I was selfish and self-absorbed and only cared about myself. So many times that I believed it.

If you hear something enough from someone close to you, you start to question what’s up and what’s down.

 

[BigMavis]

If they're condoning off a road this may be news.

 

[Dotty Merton]

Is anyone on dating sites? What do people use nowadays? Or is that a stretch?

It crossed my mind too. Is there one for big boob luvers?

 

[donutwitch]

I questioned this before. Why does PA not do the morning routine usually as he has every morning free. So you've got Nicola dealing with the kids in the morning. Then you've got her parents watching the kids a little longer in the evening so she can do a work call. So that excludes PA again from the evening shift. When and where is he pulling his weight? I think he's so laid back he's a nightmare to live with and have to rely on, wakes up whenever he feels like.

Is even nonchalant about her being missing ffs if there's ever a time to not be laid back, it's now

That description of him goes hand in hand with his own profile on the affiliate wealth (?) website where he explained how he didn’t care about his job, and just wanted to come up with a website where he could generate thousands per week via affiliate links. He sounds like such a lazy, entitled, useless arse. She was going through major health issues and still having to do EVERYTHING at home while he sat around drinking tea. I feel so sorry for her.

 

[InTheDollsHouse]

I think the family are responsible for the media mess

I think Paul and Emma are responsible for the media mess

 

[avabella]

It’s just came to my mind - wasn’t it said that Nicola’s boss travelled from some other part of the country to meet with her the evening before (when the kids were at the grandparents longer than usual)?

 

[da1sycha1n]

yes Paul has leaked to MWT (although the narrative has been it's a friend or member of the public MWT has went to the police telling them he intended to leak it to the newspapers and forced the Police's hand,

to add a disclaimer to the above! obviously I'm speculating a scenario that may or may not have happened!

 

[soupmodel]

Is anyone on dating sites? What do people use nowadays? Or is that a stretch?

Pinterest xx

 

[puddleduck]

Am I the only one scared to go and look at the news?
No, didn’t think so. Please let her be safe.

 

[InTheDollsHouse]

I questioned this before. Why does PA not do the morning routine usually as he has every morning free. So you've got Nicola dealing with the kids in the morning. Then you've got her parents watching the kids a little longer in the evening so she can do a work call. So that excludes PA again from the evening shift. When and where is he pulling his weight? I think he's so laid back he's a nightmare to live with and have to rely on, wakes up whenever he feels like.

Is even nonchalant about her being missing ffs if there's ever a time to not be laid back, it's now

I do think the morning routine is a fair question, but I also think it’s something many mums might like to do themselves.
Posts that were seen on Nicola’s fb (when it was public) said things like the walk set her up for the day.

 

[Lalalemon]

If they're condoning off a road this may be news.

Where have you seen this please?

 

[da1sycha1n]

I think Paul and Emma are responsible for the media mess

I concur!

 

[Boring Monday]

I questioned this before. Why does PA not do the morning routine usually as he has every morning free. So you've got Nicola dealing with the kids in the morning. Then you've got her parents watching the kids a little longer in the evening so she can do a work call. So that excludes PA again from the evening shift. When and where is he pulling his weight? I think he's so laid back he's a nightmare to live with and have to rely on, wakes up whenever he feels like.

Is even nonchalant about her being missing ffs if there's ever a time to not be laid back, it's now

Maybe she just liked to take the kids to school and catch up with the other mums?
Friend will come off a night shift and walk hers to school rather than fall straight in bed because it keeps her in the loop.

 

[Multi-21]

It’s just came to my mind - wasn’t it said that Nicola’s boss travelled from some other part of the country to meet with her the evening before (when the kids were at the grandparents longer than usual)?

Yes Leeds I think but I’m sure whatever was discussed there and her demeanour would have been looked at early on

 

[qwikti]

If they're condoning off a road this may be news.

I was thinking that once I saw the helicopter... God, I really hope not, but I can't shake the horrible feeling. Her poor daughters, if it is the dreaded moment we expect, my heart aches for them.

 

[avabella]

Where have you seen this please?

Posted in the Mirror

Nicola Bulley police seal off all roads close to where mum went missing

Mum-of-two Nicola Bulley, 45, went missing while walking her dog over three weeks ago, triggering a massive Lancashire Police investigation centred on the River Wyre

www.mirror.co.uk

 

[theleagueofgentlemen]

Have we seen this?

Sick online trolls hack into Nicola Bulley's partner Paul's social media account

Sexually explicit photos of women were posted on one of his social media accounts, with police confirming it had been hacked by a third party

www.walesonline.co.uk

 

[InTheDollsHouse]

Have we seen this?

Sick online trolls hack into Nicola Bulley's partner Paul's social media account

Sexually explicit photos of women were posted on one of his social media accounts, with police confirming it had been hacked by a third party

www.walesonline.co.uk

Yes it’s in the recap x

 

[SpanishPink]

Very sad how many of us can relate to the controlling man narrative. I was with a guy once that counted how many biscuits I would take from the jar (didn’t want me putting on weight) and was a total perv on social media. Told me what to wear. Didn’t like me wearing makeup. Would gaslight me to the high heavens and I found escort sites on his laptop when I needed to use it one time (naughty me for looking at his history but I had a gut feeling he was up to all sorts) of course it was my fault. Men can suck SO bad, even the ones who aren’t overtly abusive are still jerks that make us question if we’re good enough. And what do they have to offer? A receding hairline and lies

I think this type of personnality is less rare than you'd expect, unfortunately...
I was stalked for almost one year by a man I dated less than two months and cut off after his mask slipped...

Nowadays the young generation is so connected, and manipulative/toxic men are well represented on dating apps, it's a convenient playground for them. They don't show you who they are at first (nobody would ever date them if they did!) and are experts at hiding their toxic traits... for a while.
I really believe there should be more actions of prevention, starting in secondary school.