Surely the police would have already known about the incident in January because it would be logged on to their police data system? Also for an officer and a healthcare professional to both attend at the same time is quite rare (in my local area it is near impossible to get either of the Professionals or service to attend)
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So she was an alcoholic it seems, lots coming out now about her mental state.
And the two people she spoke to on her route would no doubt have mentioned something if they thought she was drunk on the day. I can't see that staying out of the media for this long.
It's my understanding that suicides, on the whole, are planned well in advance. The main factor that makes me still think it was a terrible accident is that Nicola left the dog behind. That doesn't sit right with me as I don't think she would have left the dog vulnerable if that makes sense.
What he means is that he wouldn’t have made himself look like a fool by siding so heavily with the familyHow would it have changed the search strategy?
I suspect he’s going to distance himself from the whole situation now
Exactly, it's a self medicating coping mechanism for many. It's also highly addictive and it's everywhere.
I can’t think of anywhere else she could have gone other than into the river. If she had been drinking then that makes it even more likely.
Thanks Penny. Complete common sense to me. XxThis
so well said
Speaking of facts I'd like to see a direct link to any suggestion or evidence that Nicole was driving drunk with her kids in the car.
I'm sorry you've not been heard. Please don't give up. It happens to too many woman unfortunately (not being heard) and a lot of time by male doctors. Once you speak to the right person it could change your life. Please try again xThis has really punched me on the heart, I am peri, and alcohol is an every night thing for me now unfortunately, peri and menopause is awful, I'm not aloud hrt as I've have cancer twice, it really scares me, I don't now what is going to happen, and the fear of asking for help also as I worry about my kids!
Once I did mention to the doc, and he said kind of angerly just stop!
My heart is breaking for that beautiful lady
Thanks love x
I’m confused as to why it’s thought that the welfare check was to do with something Paul had done? It seems more like it was to do with the alcohol issues and the fact there are children in the home? Sorry if I’ve missed something.
I completely understand Paul and the family withholding this information.
In fact the statement seems like the police have issued it in response to the criticisms they’ve been facing; sort of “this is why we think she’s in the river - it’s based on what we’ve been told”
I hope those little girls are offered some professional help at some point to deal with all this
I completely understand Paul and the family withholding this information.
In fact the statement seems like the police have issued it in response to the criticisms they’ve been facing; sort of “this is why we think she’s in the river - it’s based on what we’ve been told”
I hope those little girls are offered some professional help at some point to deal with all this
Not if you're a functioning alcoholic who is dependent on it. But I'm not even going to assume she was drunk or not in the morning. The police are just highlighting a documented fact and clearing up why they consider her to be vulnerable.
Her poor girls Imagine if her issues had of been hidden from the girls at home and now it's out there for the whole public to judge 
Should not have been released IMO
Imagine if her issues had of been hidden from the girls at home and now it's out there for the whole public to judge Should not have been released IMO
It wouldn’t surprise me if the Scum called up the media / police with a ‘do you have a statement about Nicola being an alcoholic’ on a hope and a prayer, and it’s hit pay dirt.
Would the dog not keep following her if she went walking? Seeing that police are saying it’s impossible she’s in the river?
Ha.
that because you weren’t part of the official investigation and obviously the family didnt Trust you quite as much as you thought they should.
Crazy to me now all the interviews with the family saying “ everything was normal” “this is so out of character for her” when nothing seems to be normal at all and she was obviously struggling. Part of the reason people don’t seek help is that exact stigma.
No one is thinking less if you for being honest about your problems.
No one is thinking less if you for being honest about your problems.
A welfare check can be for any reason. The police literally turned up to our childhood home as there had been reports of kids screaming by neighbours. It was us. We were playing the Wii as a family.I’m confused as to why it’s thought that the welfare check was to do with something Paul had done? It seems more like it was to do with the alcohol issues and the fact there are children in the home? Sorry if I’ve missed something.
I completely understand Paul and the family withholding this information.
In fact the statement seems like the police have issued it in response to the criticisms they’ve been facing; sort of “this is why we think she’s in the river - it’s based on what we’ve been told”
I hope those little girls are offered some professional help at some point to deal with all this
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