The shame around having PND is still very much a thing. Seeing new mothers with immaculate lives on insta ,makes us feel like we are just not coping like we "should".
Niamh Debrun #3 Steps and more steps, water and the gym but marrying a hurler is her biggest win
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Sorry but is that not what Niamh has done?
We all have a bit of PND in my opinion, its still taboo to a certain extent but posting pictures of yourself 19 days postpartum all dolled up and borderline gloating with a pretense of a perfect life won't help?
We have all said we'd have more respect for her if she was just honest, talk about the days when you can't manage to brush your hair, show the mess in the kitchen, the takeaway boxes cause you can find the time to cook, the 4 cups of tea you made but never got to drink, the baskets of washing that just pile up, if you've been there you know. For me having someone relate to what I was going though made all the difference, didn't change it but made me realise what was normal.
Don't come out 5 months later and be like....oh I didn't think this was going to be hard....you can't put her back in!!
This is exactly what I meant !!! It certainly made me feel pretty sh*t with her out enjoying herself , dolled up to the 9's. I've been to hell and back.. twice. Seeing her constantly getting her make up done and hair extensions, while I struggled to get the big ball of matts out of my hair . Out doing the food shop and not being able to think straight of what I needed. It's a rollercoaster. I wish it was spoken more of.
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She’s reassured after receiving all the DMs…. Her messages were off?!!!!! Who was DMing her??
Off in the local five star hotel this evening. Maybe stay at home once in a while and the baby might be more settled and in a routine
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I actually done this on purpose cos her ‘friend’ told me she reads here all the time I just wanted proof
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She barely worked the last few, years also, so not sure why that was thrown in
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I would say she probably has no idea who her authentic self is tbh. She's so busy keeping up appearances for herself (because no one Ive encountered would aspire to this) that she probably doesn't take a minute to think about the good things she has around her.
It's incredibly sad, and I do hope if she has pnd that she allows herself to receive the help for it
Pull the other one you absolute head! For someone finding it so tough yesterday but since just last night has been out in Lyrath and managed two gym trips today. She just loves the attention and can't pick which lane she wants to be in, relatable mom content or trying to get others jealous of her and showing off
Molly Mae did a video then Niamh posted her “feeling” at least Molly Mae is only 22 so probably naive
Did she do two workouts today? I don’t know why people follow her. She is painful
Probably get free supplements now to go along with her new free kitchen
Are they getting a free kitchen?
Yes a free kitchen
Oh wow that Q & A. So she’s talking like she even mentioned before that bf is history. That’s for clarifying Niamh. Maybe you should have eased up on going on like you were Mother Earth while you were doing it. It’s bloody hard and so demanding on the mother. Maybe acknowledge that instead of prancing around like nothing in your life has changed. 
rolling out the osteopath and early weaning thinking it will make her sleep through. It probably won’t Niamh. Most babies don’t for ages. Lord with my now 10mt old id be delighted just to be up once or twice at night but no it’s unsettled and kicking most of the night every night. Drained, the joys of dairy intolerance. And do not get me started on giving a new mother who’s gained weight the advice I’d ‘be consistent with a calorie deficit’ ffs so damaging. Not everyone even before kids are going around like a maniac counting calories and steps. I was lighter a month after my 2nd baby than I was 6mts later and you know that was ok coz I was going through a tit time and trying to lose weight could wait awhile.
rolling out the osteopath and early weaning thinking it will make her sleep through. It probably won’t Niamh. Most babies don’t for ages. Lord with my now 10mt old id be delighted just to be up once or twice at night but no it’s unsettled and kicking most of the night every night. Drained, the joys of dairy intolerance. And do not get me started on giving a new mother who’s gained weight the advice I’d ‘be consistent with a calorie deficit’ ffs so damaging. Not everyone even before kids are going around like a maniac counting calories and steps. I was lighter a month after my 2nd baby than I was 6mts later and you know that was ok coz I was going through a tit time and trying to lose weight could wait awhile.Who’s doing the free kitchen for them? I’ve missed that on her Instagram. Kitchens are a bloody fortune!
Imagine going to mcdonald's for fruit???
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