Pre-kids I didn’t care, I rarely lock my door and friends knew they were more than welcome to just let themselves in. But that’s because pre-kids, my house was always visitor ready. Now, I need about ten working days notice to make it semi presentable and tbh that actually involves shoving all the mess upstairs and closing the door
![Face with tears of joy :joy: 😂](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f602.png)
I never used to mind, but also people didn't do it as much before there was a baby to mither.
My parents turned up on Friday evening juuuuust as we were about to press play on a film and despite me asking them to leave about a dozen times they were still here for half an hour. They just have no respect for our time as they think "oh sod it is being a stredss head for no reason, there's hours of the day left yet", ignorning that our day starts and ends earlier than theirs and that we only have little windows of opportunity when the baby is content. My dad would have gone, but my mum was just talking to D louder and louder and trying to have a play
Over winter when he was tiny she'd try turning up at like 8.30pm too, had to crack down on that. My parents think me and my husband are boring as we like to be in bed by half 9 latest during the week and they stay up until midnight (and then spend all Saturday in bed cos they're knackered from the week
![Eyes :eyes: 👀](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f440.png)
). Had to make the point that we are early risers, we have to be as I start work at 7.30am in another town, and even though I'm on maternity at the min, Mr SI still gets up at our usual time and I stick with it as I like to get my morning shower before he leaves, and we might as well stay in the routine for when I'm back at work.
Anyway. We have a crawler!! He's been getting about a bit for a few weeks, but today he's properly getting room to room! Explains why he pretty literally spent the whole night fastened to me slurping down milk. I mean he normally has loads of night boob, but last night was relentless. Didn't help that he'd fallen asleep for the night on the KW (! unusual) and wasn't in his sleeping bag, so I had a blanket round him that he kept escaping from and then crying cos he was cold. We cosleep and I normally have my duvet barely covering me/nowhere near me, but he had a footless sleepsuit on so I covered his feet up to try and keep them warm.