Update:
My friend rang her mother last night from my place, and suggested that she rent a fridge/freezer from a place that does rentals. The one she was looking at was $9/week.
Her mother got hysterical, saying she didn't want to rent anything and she didn't know why my friend couldn't just give her the money after all she's done for her over the years (which is tiddly squat). My friend replied to say that she doesn't have $2k lying around to buy a new fridge, just like that - to which her mother snapped back that she would, if she didn't spend her money on crap.
So, again turning the situation around to be my friend's problem - why is it any of her business how my friend spends her money anyway? And for the record, she buys nice things to enjoy because she works hard!
As far as the relatives calling my friend to apply pressure - she suggested to the latest one to call that they lend her the money if they feel so passionate about it. Of course that was met with radio silence.
I've advised my friend to go "grey rock" with her mother. Another of our friends thinks that's mean, because she's elderly, but from my perspective she's emotionally abusing and manipulating my friend. I'm going to add here too, that she's never been a nice person. She says really mean things about everyone behind their backs and even told my friend - to her face - that she's going to end up lonely with nobody because she's so selfish (there's absolutely no truth to any of that).
Ugh! Makes me so angry.
My friend rang her mother last night from my place, and suggested that she rent a fridge/freezer from a place that does rentals. The one she was looking at was $9/week.
Her mother got hysterical, saying she didn't want to rent anything and she didn't know why my friend couldn't just give her the money after all she's done for her over the years (which is tiddly squat). My friend replied to say that she doesn't have $2k lying around to buy a new fridge, just like that - to which her mother snapped back that she would, if she didn't spend her money on crap.
So, again turning the situation around to be my friend's problem - why is it any of her business how my friend spends her money anyway? And for the record, she buys nice things to enjoy because she works hard!
As far as the relatives calling my friend to apply pressure - she suggested to the latest one to call that they lend her the money if they feel so passionate about it. Of course that was met with radio silence.
I've advised my friend to go "grey rock" with her mother. Another of our friends thinks that's mean, because she's elderly, but from my perspective she's emotionally abusing and manipulating my friend. I'm going to add here too, that she's never been a nice person. She says really mean things about everyone behind their backs and even told my friend - to her face - that she's going to end up lonely with nobody because she's so selfish (there's absolutely no truth to any of that).
Ugh! Makes me so angry.