Absolutely spot on and really puts things into perspective.I don’t know if she’s deluded or just unintelligent. It’s sad but true: once you become a parent, your needs are no longer the priority because YOU chose to bring a child into the world. It wasn’t their decision. It was yours. So you have a responsibility to commit to raising them in the best way possible. She’s got everything on a plate given to her and it still isn’t enough.
I don’t know why but she’s really annoyed me this morning more than usual. Probably because at three o’clock this morning I was woken by my severely autistic 9 year old who’d wet the bed and (because he can’t stand the feeling of any liquid - bath times are a joy) he was screaming the place down, meaning the other two children were woken. I then had to change bedding, try to settle all 3 kids, and then at 7am drag all three from their beds when they were shattered to drive them to their schools - one nursery, one primary, one special school - before logging into work at 9. I am utterly exhausted. I do it all on my own and I’m happy to do it because I chose those children but when I see Naomi whinging about not being fulfilled as I was crying trying to stop my autistic son from hitting me this morning, I really do not have any sympathy!
No, even Jordan has admitted they were accidentsWas either child planned?
But she uses natural cycles which is AMAZING, SO accurate, swipe up and get ripped off now (and likely pregnant too)No, even Jordan has admitted they were accidents
This is why I put my kids to bed at 6.. I mean they also still wake up between 5 and 6 even if I put them to bed later so at least they’re getting the full 12 hours, but I 100% agree, that’s also at least 3 hours of time to herself?Sorry but she has from 6 every night to her bed time to fulfil her needs 🥱
She definitely fell pregnant of purposeNo, even Jordan has admitted they were accidents
You are a super mumI don’t know if she’s deluded or just unintelligent. It’s sad but true: once you become a parent, your needs are no longer the priority because YOU chose to bring a child into the world. It wasn’t their decision. It was yours. So you have a responsibility to commit to raising them in the best way possible. She’s got everything on a plate given to her and it still isn’t enough.
I don’t know why but she’s really annoyed me this morning more than usual. Probably because at three o’clock this morning I was woken by my severely autistic 9 year old who’d wet the bed and (because he can’t stand the feeling of any liquid - bath times are a joy) he was screaming the place down, meaning the other two children were woken. I then had to change bedding, try to settle all 3 kids, and then at 7am drag all three from their beds when they were shattered to drive them to their schools - one nursery, one primary, one special school - before logging into work at 9. I am utterly exhausted. I do it all on my own and I’m happy to do it because I chose those children but when I see Naomi whinging about not being fulfilled as I was crying trying to stop my autistic son from hitting me this morning, I really do not have any sympathy!
But even when you get time to yourself, you will crave to get back to your kidlets because you're a real, proper mum who cares about nothing more than her children. Keep going, you're doing amazing day in day outThank you everyone for your kind words. It is hard but we all have our crosses to bare (except Naomi it would seem). Another hurdle for us: the middle child has been sent home to self-isolate as someone in her school bubble has tested positive for Covid. Which means begging my mother-in-law to do the double school run so I can stay at home with her whilst she isolates followed by juggling zoom classes and working full time
Naomi, if you’re reading any of this which I suspect that you are, this is real life. What I wouldn’t give to go and get my hair done or pop for a leisurely meal on my own. It beggars belief
I honestly think she shoves them in their rooms for a ‘nap’ and just hopes for the best. She said herself Cass doesn’t leave once he’s in. She couldn’t have them not nap, a whole uninterrupted day with her kids wouldn’t be ok to her, she’d be crying on the phone to Jord by 2pm.OK so if her kids really sleep so much and are tired all the time. Wouldn't you as a mum start thinking they need a better diet to give them energy?! I know we seem tjem being crazy but it looks like the sort of high you get off of sugar or e numbers.
They don't seem to have the normal all day long energy I'd expect from kids their age.
I really do think with people who have everything there is an empty space that they're trying to fill. They think that because something new and shiny gives you a little dopamine hit that will fill it for them. Trouble is, they don't realise that the void isn't something that can be filled with material things; and that dopamine won't hang around for very long. I've always found that the richest people who have the most also expect the most from others too. And the ones who have very little to be the most aware of what true happiness is.I definitely think there’s a correlation between Jordan being away and her not coping very well. Diversity were shooting something yesterday and she didn’t show him so assume he was away overnight or got back very late.
I really think she needs help. Claiming her needs aren’t being fulfilled yet she’s had her hair done, her lashes done, had lunch out several times (yes I will include the car McDonald’s on Monday), gone to the gym, had her evenings and just reheated a ready meal. What more does she want?? They have no money worries, everything material possession wise she could ask for. Like literally what is missing from her life?? It’s almost like people who have everything still can’t be happy. Happiness comes from within, not from designer handbags, how big your house is or what car you drive. She loves a quote about happiness, positivity and good vibes yet she’s the complete opposite. I bet she’s a right nightmare for Jordan and that’s why he just goes along with everything for an easy life, says she’s the best mum, does everything she requests because he thinks it’ll make her happy and nothing ever does. If she can’t be happy with her life right now, nothing is ever going to make her happy.
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