i just don’t think motherhood comes naturally to her. I fully believe Jordan is a great father, you can see how animated the children are around him, they’re always next to him, playing or eating. The night Cass had his terror it was Jordan that ended up sleeping next to him but I bet nay was saying just ignore him and going back to sleep herself. She just comes across very cold. She has hinted at things in her past and I’d say she has trauma from her own childhood that affects how she is.
I think jordan does everything he can to be a great parent and I think she’s spun a line to him - she initially said they got their nanny because she was struggling, mentioned her mental health and how she’d had sepsis etc. Yet clearly they got their nanny so she can do as she pleases like she isn’t a mother. She’s only interested in herself. There are mums who would give their arm to stay at home with their children but she actively chooses to spend as much time away from them as possible. I don’t think Jordan dares say anything as she’d have a breakdown. She had one day with them and put online she was calling Jordan crying that she couldn’t cope - whether she thought it was funny, I’d be quite alarmed if my friend did that. It’s ok to have challenging and difficult days, but it feels and comes across differently when she says it because she says it whenever she has them alone. I think she loves the weekends because Jordan takes over and she’s off the hook. He doesn’t see her parenting to know what’s really going on, he’s not often home and when he is, he’s taking control. She thinks hinting about a 3rd baby is funny - she just really needs to focus on the two she has.