If it weren’t for the fact the children (mostly) look clean, well fed and generally ‘safe’, I’d report Naomi to social services for neglect. Admittedly they’re a two parent team but as Jordan appears to work away a lot, the responsibility falls mainly on Naomi who isn’t cut out for the role.
Cass is developmentally delayed in almost every way - he can hardly talk, she babyfies him with naps/dummies/nappies - he’s 3! He should be in nursery learning how to socialise, talk to other children and adults, share his toys, starting to read, scribble, paint, play, use his imagination.
Mimi is still young but equally craves her mother’s attention. Naomi should be taking her out for picnics, pointing out the different colours, making her repeat what she’s saying, messy play, play dough, colouring, reading, baking.
The nanny is responsible for childcare. She isn’t responsible for bringing the children up. Naomi is failing the children. She simply isn’t equipped for the role of ‘mum’. It’s actually quite sad. She needs help, proper help, as she’s either suffering PND or a severe lack of interest in her children and their development. She is completely failing them