Lizzi has terminal breast cancer herself. It’s a very sad situation.Is Lizzie a sub? Awful news. Sending the family my best wishes.
That poor family. My heart truly goes out to them. Life is just so damn cruel and unfair sometimes.Lizzi has terminal breast cancer herself. It’s a very sad situation.
I used to have some sort of sympathy for him, but when I realized that he does nothing to help himself, I just couldn't give a shit. He has had access to professionals, no doubt through Nads, yet for years he has been obstinate, refusing to get help. He has spent decades hobbled, spending time being miserable and bitching on YouTube, having his spells. He is supposedly on meds and kind of goes to therapry, who knows what exactly goes on behind the scenes. If Nadia didn't have a hard time telling him to get his so-called drinking problem sorted, why hasn't she told him the same about his mental health? Maybe she likes the status quo subconsciously?If you dig a bit deeper, he's a deeply anxious person. He'll go to extreme lengths avoid parties and socialising. He sits at home alone working on his wife's YouTube channel all day.
50 something year old Mark Adderley refuses to take responsibility for his own actions. In the words of his own mother: "You always have to blame somebody."i dont think he has the social maturity to deal with his issues
he was drinking from a young age, and in a serious relationship from the age of 14, his formative teenage years have been blurred - no doubt living in a chaotic home too, he is full of resentment, so he wallows in his own misery
I do wonder if the issue here is Narcissistic Nadia? I think Mark has had the most awful start to life and has used the most unhealthy coping techniques to get through. Nanny Di also has narcissistic tendencies as did Nanny Thelma. Growing up in such dysfunction is bound to have an impact on your life and upbringing. I almost feel sorry for Mark. He is totally alone and always has been. I do wonder if Nadia could see his vulnerability therefore always now has narcissistic supply from Mark because she has him exactly where she wants him... at home, unkempt, unwashed devoting himself 110% on her? It does make me wonder that she likes all the bells and whistles that come with being the sole earner, the home owner, the fixer, the one who makes Mark better, the heroine. Yet deep down Mark isn’t allowed to be independent or his own person. He has to devote all his time on Nadia. No more, no less. Because Mark has such a dysfunctional childhood, he knows no difference. He has attachment to dysfunction- extreme highs and lows in a relationship is normal for Mark, he could quite possibly crave it because it’s all he knows. Either way it’s sad to see it played out.Mark is a man of such contrasts. One one hand, he comes across as extroverted and confident in a lot of ways. He talks (overcompensates?) about his wild youth and how crazy and exciting it was. He talks about how his career was doing so well and worked with [insert famous name here].
If you dig a bit deeper, he's a deeply anxious person. He'll go to extreme lengths avoid parties and socialising. He sits at home alone working on his wife's YouTube channel all day.
The last social thing I remember is his wild night on the town with... one of the subs. I can't help but feel a little bit sorry for him as it is quite a sad life.
agree she is the rescuer and he is the victim so round and round the drama triangle they go - her chasing him and him being caught - until they got off the drama triangle they will get nowhereI do wonder if the issue here is Narcissistic Nadia? I think Mark has had the most awful start to life and has used the most unhealthy coping techniques to get through. Nanny Di also has narcissistic tendencies as did Nanny Thelma. Growing up in such dysfunction is bound to have an impact on your life and upbringing. I almost feel sorry for Mark. He is totally alone and always has been. I do wonder if Nadia could see his vulnerability therefore always now has narcissistic supply from Mark because she has him exactly where she wants him... at home, unkempt, unwashed devoting himself 110% on her? It does make me wonder that she likes all the bells and whistles that come with being the sole earner, the home owner, the fixer, the one who makes Mark better, the heroine. Yet deep down Mark isn’t allowed to be independent or his own person. He has to devote all his time on Nadia. No more, no less. Because Mark has such a dysfunctional childhood, he knows no difference. He has attachment to dysfunction- extreme highs and lows in a relationship is normal for Mark, he could quite possibly crave it because it’s all he knows. Either way it’s sad to see it played out.
If Mark was my partner I’d be encouraging independence, friendships, counselling and healthy hobbies.
I think Nadia is the issue.
Imagine having the gall to interfere with someone else's love life when you've married an alcoholic, with two children from two different women and you've only known them a few months! Unbelievable!yes she is a proper bossy old boot and thats why she falls out with everyone
as she wont be told and its her way or no way
she interferred in Dina's love life and they didnt speak for 2 years
Imagine having the gall to interfere with someone else's love life when you've married an alcoholic, with two children from two different women and you've only known them a few months! Unbelievable!
And she controls what he eats, she is a controlling person, she was even telling Lee when making the cocktails don't do that etc , she has to always have her say! Very controlling in her nature .I do wonder if the issue here is Narcissistic Nadia? I think Mark has had the most awful start to life and has used the most unhealthy coping techniques to get through. Nanny Di also has narcissistic tendencies as did Nanny Thelma. Growing up in such dysfunction is bound to have an impact on your life and upbringing. I almost feel sorry for Mark. He is totally alone and always has been. I do wonder if Nadia could see his vulnerability therefore always now has narcissistic supply from Mark because she has him exactly where she wants him... at home, unkempt, unwashed devoting himself 110% on her? It does make me wonder that she likes all the bells and whistles that come with being the sole earner, the home owner, the fixer, the one who makes Mark better, the heroine. Yet deep down Mark isn’t allowed to be independent or his own person. He has to devote all his time on Nadia. No more, no less. Because Mark has such a dysfunctional childhood, he knows no difference. He has attachment to dysfunction- extreme highs and lows in a relationship is normal for Mark, he could quite possibly crave it because it’s all he knows. Either way it’s sad to see it played out.
If Mark was my partner I’d be encouraging independence, friendships, counselling and healthy hobbies.
I think Nadia is the issue.
she said don't add sugar syrup it'll be sweet enough (and exhibited narcissistic self-satisfaction)And she controls what he eats, she is a controlling person, she was even telling Lee when making the cocktails don't do that etc , she has to always have her say! Very controlling in her nature .
The GFH vlogs are unwatchable thanks to Manky’s shaky camera work and the fact that he hardly ever shows the garden. His camera phone is always planted on his face. Nittya did a much better job filming the garden (disorganised mess that it is) when Manky asked her to film the tour he gave Lee.50 something year old Mark Adderley refuses to take responsibility for his own actions. In the words of his own mother: "You always have to blame somebody."
GFH 14 LEE is Made HEAD GARDENER, Nanny Di Has to FIGHT for Her Survival & A Glimpse of GFH 2023 - YouTube
Time stamp 41:05
Cue his usual aggressive response when called out with the truth.
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