Nadia Sawalha #46 Several teaspoons of Gin, desperate to be thin, the whole house is a bin.

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Looks like Admin have installed it. No escaping her Instagram strip offs now!
I clicked on it and "they" joined at 8.56 this morning and one thread is just filled with Insta posts for some bloke called Sean. Now it say it is a new feature to post Instas.
 
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I’ve not mentioned it on here previously because I felt it was too personal for me to bring it on to Tattle, and I’m not prepared to take screenshots, but S.E also regularly seems to be having anxiety attacks, and suffering with depression and sharing that fact on both IG, to N&M, and sharing it on FB to the subs. That seems to have prompted many other subs to also post on FB that they’ve been having breakdowns etc.
There has also regularly been comments on their lives from subs saying they want to end their life.
It appears like they’re competing for N&M’s attention and using mental health as a way to get it because of N&M’s regular discussions on the topic.
I find it very strange. I struggle with both anxiety and depression at times, but I get through it privately. If I needed support, I’d speak to family/friends. I wouldn’t dream of using it for attention on social media.
I do wonder though, if some of these situations are just made up to try to get N&M to make contact with them…
Either way, it’s sad, and it’s something that N&M have created by using their own mental health for attention.
I actually think they’ve created something quite dangerous with their YouTube channel and ‘community’, and it could be only a matter of time before someone goes too far and does something that can’t be undone. They are playing with people’s lives, and getting away with it.
 
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I do wonder though, if some of these situations are just made up to try to get N&M to make contact with them…
You've hit the nail on the head. I was wondering the same thing. It seems as though every topic the S'adderleys mention, a sub has an extreme story relating to it. I don't doubt that many of their subs have issues, but some of the stories (not just mental health) seem very far fetched. I also notice some of the subs type in block capitals to make their text stand out to Mark and Nadia in the live chat.
 
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Yes they do all seem to compete with each other about who is more ill physically and mentally. It's another reason why I pulled back from interacting months ago. ( I kept my membership until the other day however until they really annoyed me with their excuses!) They think they have got a positive community, but I think it is anything but.
 
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One of them this morning said they were scared and never felt so bad and constantly had very dark thoughts. The only reply from one of the others said hang in there it will pass. And that was it, no kind words from either of them.
 
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One of them this morning said they were scared and never felt so bad and constantly had very dark thoughts. The only reply from one of the others said hang in there it will pass. And that was it, no kind words from either of them.
And this is why I feel it’s so dangerous. They do not care.
But THEY have created this unhealthy community, so they have a duty to either give the attention (which probably wouldn’t be a good thing because it’ll only encourage it more), or put a stop to it before something terrible happens.
 
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@HereForAScroll I’m sorry if I have offended anyone with the above post it was never my intention
 
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One of them this morning said they were scared and never felt so bad and constantly had very dark thoughts. The only reply from one of the others said hang in there it will pass. And that was it, no kind words from either of them.
Your right @rivermonster nothing is ever reciprocated (or equal) with them.
They get fawned all over from having a bit of a bad cold yet some of the subs can be suicidal and get little to no input or advice from others?
Then of course people could say with some justification that they are not trained or qualified (yes even you Mark!) to deal with people having a mental health crisis or episode i.e the advice given to call the Samaritans?
As we all know though that doesn't stop them from making (poor) mental health a hot topic that they constantly use on their channel?
So they are deliberately cultivating (I think) a kind of group therapy atmosphere?
People are reminded also triggered (re opening old wounds) and most people want to empathise but also some people want to be heard or comforted or given understanding or kindness?
That to a certain extent is human nature and you know Nadia blathers on about #bekind (to her) but then extend that kindness to others as well?
It's supposed to work both ways!

I honestly believe that in truth they are both very uncomfortable around emotion and nevermind praising each other neither of them have very developed emotional intelligence!
I just see them clam up instantly whenever anyone needs help?
That's because in my opinion both of them are very unhelpful people!
It's that characteristic I think that makes a difference and also is the genuine hallmark of an empath (yes Nadia)!
The extent to which you are helpful towards others and really I don't see this in either of them?
Putting themselves out for others no I'm sorry that does not happen the exact opposite in fact!
Others are often an inconvenience a worry a source of validation a scapegoat or a means towards an end!
You can fake anything these days but you cannot successfully fake kindness because sooner or later when called to take action it will be obvious?
So we on here judge them by their actions and those do not reveal kind or considerate people but mercenary and scheming and duplicitous people.
No wonder some subs are feeling so frustrated and with pent up emotions.....they turn to the SA',s for support predictably enough it is not there and it never will be.
 
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@HereForAScroll Jesus Christ it has really got out of hand now. I don't really get an opportunity to see much of the chat as I do the recap, but that is beyond the pale. They just seem to not acknowledge them, as previously they would say call the Samaritans if you are feeling depressed or see someone qualified. It's just sickening behaviour.
 
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Some of the subs are on multiple channels crying out for help. Claire S has threatened to commit suicide on the Sawalha-Adderleys channel and Emma Kenny the TV agony aunt channel.

On occasion I've watched the live chat on youtube and Claire is absolutely desperate for attention regarding her poor mental health and how she cannot go on.

Ashley is another, he's always telling anyone who will listen how he's had enough and wants to give up.

The Sawalha-Adderleys do not care at all.

They drag these people in by using their channel as a sounding board, by oversharing with their audience how they are feeling. Woe be tide anyone who offers them practical advice. That's not what Mark & Nadia want, they just want to moan to an audience and get sympathy and praise.

In doing what thryve done they have attracted some v vulnerable people with Complex needs which they have no skill or desire to help. They signpost everyone to the "mind website" like its the font of all knowledge re mental health.

I've always believed their behaviour will backfire spectacularly one day and I still do. Their desperate subs have screamed out for attention for quite some time now, one day one of them might do what they keep threatening as Mark and Nadia truly are not listening and really don't care about anyone but themselves.

Their channel really really should not be allowed, its very dangerous. They are not qualified and they are not interested in anyone except themselves
 
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@HereForAScroll I’m sorry if I have offended anyone with the above post it was never my intention
I’m sure you haven’t @Bash a Troll
I wasn’t suggesting you shouldn’t post what you did either - you’ve posted a screenshot from a public account, which is totally fine.
In doing that, you lead me on to air a concern of mine too.
I often post screenshots from the FB group, but I wanted to make the point on here that I wouldn’t post screenshots of all the anxiety/depression/personal type posts simply because they’re posted on a private FB group, so I don’t personally feel it would be right for me to share them.
Anything on a public profile/group is fair game in my opinion
 
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Did you hear him on coffee moaning talking about cleverness and being clever himself "It's been an embarrassment all my life"
It's been months since I've watched their moaning.
This is what their talking about with everything that's going on in the world. I have been dumbed down. Have a lovely Sunday tattlers
 
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LOL @Billy Awkward 🤪 So it's being clever that's caused him embarrassment all his life Oh the anguish that must have caused ?

Nothing to do with acting like an infantile Pervy man child with questionable personal hygiene and no sense of decorum or personal boundaries then?
Righty ho! Whatever you say Mark?

Gets out the world's smallest violin.

Yes folks he can't help it! don't we understand that normal rules or judgement does not apply here?
Silly us!
https://giphy.com/sYFwJWaiz528lbEvxl
 
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Manky doesn’t have time to do THE ONE THING he is actually being compensated for in a professional capacity - the NNSS- yet he has all the time in the world to take an online IQ test to see how he matches up against his stalking target Kate Beckinsale. If Manky actually has an IQ of 150 (as the proud peacock-womble claimed), then I will gift him an iron for his wrinkled wardrobe and some melatonin for his alleged insomnia. The grubby grifter is becoming more and more pathetic.
 
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Such an excellent post @notSUBmissive and I wholeheartedly agree I really believe that's the one of the main reasons why a lot of us call them out on this forum.
We can see and sense the damage they are causing to others we have evidence of the impact of their selfish and short sighted behaviour. (Too numerous to list though God knows it's extensive!)
We feel bad for others getting sucked into the downward spiral the SA's create and maintain and we know that it benefits only them not others.
Despite their numerous protestations (and rants) and virtue signalling to the contrary!
We see through it all....(and they hate this) but they need dependants (subscribers) and it is a very unequal co dependant relationship they have created and their echo chamber is obviously very one sided and very unhealthy and yes I think your right it could be dangerous!
Just like any involvement with narcissists can be dangerous....they will suck you in ..(love bomb) promise you happiness (or whatever you need) food family friends etc etc ..and chronically under deliver...and short change and neglect and finally (when you have served your purpose) abandon!
That's exactly what they are doing day in and day out ...ever wondered why Mark doesn't recover despite all his drama r.e his mental health that's because he needs to get others to administer to his every need also create the right kind of atmosphere in which to attract vulnerable people also if criticised he has a ready made excuse?
It wasn't him (or her) it was the drinking/mental health episode/past trauma catching up etc etc.
His stalemate (never moving on) is reflected by some of the subs who also can't move on and stay stuck caught in a web by people who appeared to be superficiality charming but who only listen to themselves....(and expect everyone else to).....they don't hear or respond to distress in others!
Insult them or if they perceive it as such however and they fly into a rage. So their fragile ego is of paramount importance but caring about others is not their forte or even priority!
That imbalance leads to imbalanced states of mind in others who oscillate between hope (a shout out an acknowledgement) and despair....some of them cannot admit to themselves that the SA's are selfish and are using them?
So they do what abused people do all the time they blame themselves they internalise rejection it must be me they think ...I'm not good or interesting enough...and probably that triggers childhood abandonment or rejection or ambivalence.....all the things that Mark Adderley claims he suffered from...he is now (maybe unconsciously inflicting on others) and Nadia enables him .... because she wants to be the rescuer...but then first you need a victim .. ..(Mark?) or anyway a continuation of the Karpman triangle and then Mark himself needs victims too because as profitable as being a professional victim is he also has his ego to maintain!
If he's weak well it's a food chain and there are others underneath him in the pecking order?
Others more hurt more impoverished more trusting and also kinder and more sensitive and genuine!
He has exerted control now it makes his life easier to cope with but it seriously diminishes and undermines the (mental) health of others who are basically there just to be used.....and objectified he doesn't see them as individuals they are there just to serve Mark and Nadias interests!
That impact is pervasive tangible (especially to us) and yes potentially dangerous!
As close connections to predators (they both are sorry not sorry) always is.
Yes for those very reasons a lot of us wish that channel didn't exist they are definitely bad (negative) influencers!
 
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Under who’s username? Nitty’s?

I’ll take it from that reaction @rivermonster was asking in general..? I did’t understand the question
Like the one above - they keep appearing on here, a new feature put on by Tattle.

No thank you very much
Is this going to happen every time she puts something on Insta I wonder
 
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Really Nadia?
Do you really call dossing around in your cesspit, with your lazy work shy husband, and getting drunk every day, ‘making the most of life’?
Sounds great🥱
Well said. He’s such an idiot sitting there in an adult babygro and fuzzy hat. Does fuck all except ride on his wife’s fading career the irony!
 
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