What do they expect? My dislike of them doesn’t come from them being ‘middle aged mums’ at all. My dislike comes from them being a bunch of twee snobs who lack any kind of self awareness whatsoever. If you don’t want people to pass comment on your clothes or the state of your house then don’t post photos of them on the internet for the world to see, you won’t always get the positive validation that you expect. Don’t get me started on the attitudes towards size there, basically anyone over a size eight being morbidly obese in their eyes. Yesterday one OP was told that her size 12 daughter was probably ‘heavy’ and that’s probablg why she wasn’t getting attention from boys. As someone who grew up in the 90’s thinking I was fat when I was only a size 10/12 I’m so relieved that the famine victim look, not attainable for most women, has gone out of fashion and women are allowed to have boobs, bums, waists etc. Someone needs to tell that lot ASAP.