I came across this thread earlier and read out of curiosity. I'd never been on Mumsnet before so decided to have a peek. I felt outraged at one AIBU thread where the OP's daughter asked if she could mind her grandkids ONCE a month and she was upset at the prospect and how rigid the arrangement was. The reason for asking was the daughter was doing a nursing course and she felt it would help her with studies. Add to the fact daughter lived 1.5 hours away, she wouldn't see her Grandkids much anyway! What a raging witch.
And all the posts here about making kids pay their way at 18, the are still children FGS. After my daughter finished Uni, I encouraged her to stay at home as long as possible to save. Her boyfriends parents were the same. I charged her very little rent - £15 which wouldn't have even covered her share of the bills, but we live comfortably so not an issue. The condition was that she save hard, which she did. Her and BF now have enough to buy a flat, which is hard where we live as South Manchester is expensive (Oop Norf, how dreadfully common!). They are only 23 - 24 next month.
They aren't buying now because of all the mortgage interest bollocks, but are going to rent for a while instead knowing that the money is there when the time is right.
Why the duck don't these middle class witches to the same? Surely any parent wants the best for their kids?
I fear I might end up lurking on there as much as I read here now. Thank you to this thread for enlightening me, I don't think I'll ever be bored again!