There’s a thread on there now from someone who’s husband has told her he’s unhappy and thinks he might want to be on his own. Of course that’s resulted in umpteen posts telling her that he’s obviously having an affair that she should expect another woman to come out of the woodwork etc. Totally unhelpful given that the OP is so upset, and yes he might be having an affair, but he might also be depressed or stressed or genuinely unhappy and if he is he has a right to leave. He is doing what they always say men should do when they are unhappy in discussing it openly. They always project onto threads like these.