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Haha, absolutely this. They're so judgemental and then you see them and they're head-to-toe dowdy Bon Marche meets Joe Brown's.

The same sort of women who say stuff like, "I never use anything but Charlotte Tilbury" and then apply their makeup like the top tips from a 1996 edition of Just 17.
God yes. They are also so snobby about places like Primark, when for a lot of people it’s all they can afford. They’d hate me as most of my clothes comes from there, Shein, New Look, F&F@Tesco, George@Asda etc. Ideally I’d love to shop more sustainably but just can’t justify the cost! You’ll see a thread from someone asking where they should get nice work clothes from and they’ll say Mint Velvet (I’m sure MN has shares in that place as they recommend if so often) or Jaegar, but those places are so bleeping expensive and out of the range of most normal people. They really have no clue. The financial privilege is off the scale, and yes I agree that they are nearly always frumpy as hell when you see the photos of them.
 
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God yes. They are also so snobby about places like Primark, when for a lot of people it’s all they can afford. They’d hate me as most of my clothes comes from there, Shein, New Look, F&F@Tesco, George@Asda etc. Ideally I’d love to shop more sustainably but just can’t justify the cost! You’ll see a thread from someone asking where they should get nice work clothes from and they’ll say Mint Velvet (I’m sure MN has shares in that place as they recommend if so often) or Jaegar, but those places are so bleeping expensive and out of the range of most normal people. They really have no clue. The financial privilege is off the scale, and yes I agree that they are nearly always frumpy as hell when you see the photos of them.
Abolutely. I could never justify Jaeger/Whistles/etc. and I know for a fact I'm still better dressed than the lot of them in my New Look.
 
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God yes. They are also so snobby about places like Primark, when for a lot of people it’s all they can afford. They’d hate me as most of my clothes comes from there, Shein, New Look, F&F@Tesco, George@Asda etc. Ideally I’d love to shop more sustainably but just can’t justify the cost! You’ll see a thread from someone asking where they should get nice work clothes from and they’ll say Mint Velvet (I’m sure MN has shares in that place as they recommend if so often) or Jaegar, but those places are so bleeping expensive and out of the range of most normal people. They really have no clue. The financial privilege is off the scale, and yes I agree that they are nearly always frumpy as hell when you see the photos of them.
Are some of them actually narcissistic and crazy enough to post pics of themselves on Mumsnet?
 
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Are some of them actually narcissistic and crazy enough to post pics of themselves on Mumsnet?
Yes, they are. They‘ll put up a photo of themselves, usually looking like a frumpy dinner lady on a day trip to the seaside and everyone wilo tell them how pretty they are.
 
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I think a lot of it is image projection/maintenance from them, like they may not necessarily shop in these places or have these incomes but they perceive themselves as either worthy of it or coming close to it so chat like they are? We’ve all met people like that in real life who use broad brushstrokes to conjure up alternate realities - like “went to uni in Cambridge” isn’t actually Cambridge tho is it hun, or “works in investment banking” but is trade support lol. Or my fav is “is a company director” like it’s a stunt and not something anyone could say for the £40 reg fee 😂

Also I refuse to believe anyone who’s actually bought clothes from Whistles would recommend them, the quality is appalling I actually have primark PJs I’ve worn for actual years and stretched out through a pregnancy that have lasted longer than >£100 dresses and (wool) coats from them. The cut of a lot of things is off too. The only good thing is their leather jackets & the little clutch zippy things for your bag?
 
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They post tit like this. Heres a picture of me. How old do you think I am and do you think my make up looks expensive? Kind responses only please.

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They always sneer at Primark, B & M and shops like that and say how bad they are for the environment but like other people, I've got lots of Primark items from at least 8 years ago and they still look great whereas I bought a Top from M & S and it looked wrecked after just one wear. Plus I love Primark PJs.

The how old am I selfie threads are always a hoot and nearly always deleted.
 
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They always sneer at Primark, B & M and shops like that and say how bad they are for the environment but like other people, I've got lots of Primark items from at least 8 years ago and they still look great whereas I bought a Top from M & S and it looked wrecked after just one wear. Plus I love Primark PJs.

The how old am I selfie threads are always a hoot and nearly always deleted.
This sustainability thing is definitely emporer’s new clothes situ, they’re all being sold far more expensive clothing under the green washed guise of sustainability, when really the most sustainable thing to do is *not* buy clothes, don’t buy into trends, make old clothes last through care & repair, and buy second hand where possible. Fair wages for garment workers is a legit thing but a recent study showed that prices only need to rise by something teeny like 1% to allow brands to pay their workers fairly, you don’t need to buy the Insta “buffet dresses” to make an ethical choice. This sort of scorning doesn’t endear anyone to the cause, it’s all about being better than someone else it’s just pathetic!

And scared of becoming one of them but have clothes from nicer places than Whistles lol and I wouldn’t say that I bought them for the quality or was particularly ✨wowed✨ by it? It’s like everything from the perfect Cherry tomato to a bag of fish and chips you judge each thing on its own merits and you can find absolute gems in the weirdest of places? How boring it must be to be defined by ur class aspirations / an image you want to project !!
 
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I like the ‘I’m looking for a pair of boots but I only have £350 to spend 🥺’ threads and they get loads of recommendations for the boots that wouldn’t look out of place on my 97 year old nan, but at least they’re LEATHER. ‘I like these, OP’ with a link to some fur lined Hotter boots that look like wellies.
 
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I like the ‘I’m looking for a pair of boots but I only have £350 to spend 🥺’ threads and they get loads of recommendations for the boots that wouldn’t look out of place on my 97 year old nan, but at least they’re LEATHER. ‘I like these, OP’ with a link to some fur lined Hotter boots that look like wellies.
Then someone comes along and says something perfectly acceptable about the cost/style and a big mumsnet pile on happens. I think some of the huns are on there just to be obnoxious.
 
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They always sneer at Primark, B & M and shops like that and say how bad they are for the environment but like other people, I've got lots of Primark items from at least 8 years ago and they still look great whereas I bought a Top from M & S and it looked wrecked after just one wear. Plus I love Primark PJs.

The how old am I selfie threads are always a hoot and nearly always deleted.
This is when mumsnet shows itself for what it is; the amount of bitter women who reply to those ‘how old do I look’ threads with “I would say you look late 60s” when it’s clear the poster is no older then 30 🤣 I’m half torn between thinking the poster deserves it for posting such a stupid thing / amazed at how horrible a load of women can be and cause such a nasty pile on! Quite what outcome the op wants, I’m never sure…
 
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This is when mumsnet shows itself for what it is; the amount of bitter women who reply to those ‘how old do I look’ threads with “I would say you look late 60s” when it’s clear the poster is no older then 30 🤣 I’m half torn between thinking the poster deserves it for posting such a stupid thing / amazed at how horrible a load of women can be and cause such a nasty pile on! Quite what outcome the op wants, I’m never sure…
There’s no way to say this without sounding like a witch but if you’re not capable of finding boots you like then chances are you have no style so shouldn’t commit hundreds on a pair? Like if you enjoy fashion by all means knock yourself out but you’re gonna end up with some country living mag feature you may as well go to Clarks and at least benefit from some orthopaedic care ?
 
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This is when mumsnet shows itself for what it is; the amount of bitter women who reply to those ‘how old do I look’ threads with “I would say you look late 60s” when it’s clear the poster is no older then 30 🤣 I’m half torn between thinking the poster deserves it for posting such a stupid thing / amazed at how horrible a load of women can be and cause such a nasty pile on! Quite what outcome the op wants, I’m never sure…
I wouldn't have the confidence to post my face on Mumsnet. I like to think that the poster wants people to say they look 19 and they're so jealous 🤣
 
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I’m on a “what are you wearing today” thread just now and I’m half howling with laughter and half sickened by a feeling of utter cringe at what I am witnessing.

So many trying to project something as well with their outfit choices. The vanity and vacuity is almost unfathomable.
 
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I wouldn't have the confidence to post my face on Mumsnet. I like to think that the poster wants people to say they look 19 and they're so jealous 🤣
They're all the sort of women who looked middle aged at 19, always.

I’m on a “what are you wearing today” thread just now and I’m half howling with laughter and half sickened by a feeling of utter cringe at what I am witnessing.

So many trying to project something as well with their outfit choices. The vanity and vacuity is almost unfathomable.
😂😂😂 I just had a look at some of the threads from this year. There isn't a well dressed one among them. It's a selection of the most blandly dressed women I've ever seen.
 
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I’m always tempted to put ‘ have a tidy round before you start posting pictures, your house is a tip’ 😂. The Huns would be all over me like a rash.
 
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I’m always tempted to put ‘ have a tidy round before you start posting pictures, your house is a tip’ 😂. The Huns would be all over me like a rash.
When they are in shoes and/or coats in the bedroom to take a picture in the mirror…so they have actually got totally ready to step out the door, but then gone back upstairs just to take a picture for a mumsnet thread! They are all so vain, makes me cringe 🥴
 
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God yes. They are also so snobby about places like Primark, when for a lot of people it’s all they can afford. They’d hate me as most of my clothes comes from there, Shein, New Look, F&F@Tesco, George@Asda etc. Ideally I’d love to shop more sustainably but just can’t justify the cost! You’ll see a thread from someone asking where they should get nice work clothes from and they’ll say Mint Velvet (I’m sure MN has shares in that place as they recommend if so often) or Jaegar, but those places are so bleeping expensive and out of the range of most normal people. They really have no clue. The financial privilege is off the scale, and yes I agree that they are nearly always frumpy as hell when you see the photos of them.
We shop in all the same places. I love Primark for me and the kids. I also look a lot more fashionable than 90% of the frumpy mums I meet, who appear to have kids and then start shopping exclusively in Jules, large Face and white stuff.

Just had a nosey at the what you wearing thread. I actually underestimated how dull, frumpy and unfashionable they are.

I am bias because I'm still a bit punk at heart, but do you really need to dress like your gran in your 30s because your a mum now.
 
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Not one single person I’ve seen so far looks smart or remotely well dressed. But I forget that slobbing around in cardigans is a virtue for the Mumsnet Massive.

It took me into some other threads. So many of the people on there are either bad to the bone or not well.
 
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