I normally don’t have any issue with this family but I do think someone needs to sit her down and tell her to calm down.
I’ve been in hospital more times than I count, so many stays, operations etc, I’ve had a blood clot for example. I was admitted for a suspected stroke because my left side stopped functioning. My last stay involved an operation to remove infected cells from my skull, I literally had the back of my ear cut off and stitched back on, then had to have ketamine to get me through the pain. Then I ended up with an emergency CT a year later as they thought they’d missed some and I had a brain abscess. All of this happened in my 20s and I didn’t once cry or complain or go on a mad panicked rant about dying. You put your trust in the doctors that are trained to give your care. By all means ask for a second opinion, but if the surgeon has a list of 3 people, one has appendicitis, one has internal bleeding after an RTC and one has an oozy cyst on their bits.. well let’s face it, the oozy cyst isn’t going to be priority.
Also, cysts leak green and yellow gunk… it’s what they do. It doesn’t necessarily mean it’s infected, it’s just dead skin cells etc. she’s probably being pumped with IV antibiotics as a precaution anyway and they’ll be monitoring her constantly - her blood pressure and temperature especially. If she was showing signs of sepsis they’d have acted by now.
Such a rant, sorry. I get she’s scared, I get why she’s in hospital (and I never questioned the validity of her being there), but she needs someone to calm her down and bring her back down to earth.