Very recently my 1 year old son had 2 ambulance rides and a separate overnight stay within the space of 2 weeks.
Both ambulance rides I kept apologising for using the resources. They kept assuring me I did the right thing but I felt awful because we have a car. He had a 42 fever and was starting to become unresponsive and showing signs of febrile seizures. In hindsight it was ambulance worthy but at the time I felt terrible about it.
The day of his overnight stay for something else, I did everything to not take him to A&E. Tried the GP (no appts), urgent care centre (no appts), 111 referred me to a GP call (they referred it to my own GP surgery who id already told them didn’t have any appointments…), then called 111 again and got told A&E. I even called the health visitor and his dietitian to see if there was anything we could do without going to A&E! Turns out it was also A&E worthy as we were carted off to paediatrics, cannula in and were told we weren’t going anywhere for the foreseeable!
I guess my point is, some people think they’re owed it and don’t think about the implications it might have on someone else. They don’t respect it or consider the way they use it. Some people thrive on the attention it brings (why else would you post tens of videos while your daughter is supposedly that poorly!), and some people just like to dramatise every little thing that ever happens to them. Charlotte just screams immaturity to me, and Jasmine is nothing but a babied teenager who needs to start fending for herself and not expecting mummy to call the doctor for her.