Great post and very kind .She claims poverty as an excuse to sell used clothes and gifts rather than donate .
she claims poverty to beg for free kitchens & puppies etc
she begs, lies, and is completely inconsistent , moody and spoilt , and she wonders why she is not liked , someone so erratic should very definitely not be getting a dog , she cries about having to look after her own bairns , housework and life admin overwhelm her how does she think a puppy will help ? Lee doesn’t even pretend to be onboard with this given her history of ignoring his opinions you would think she would start listening as I recall he wasn’t keen on a 3 rd baby or spending so much on a house that clearly didn’t suit them , just look how happy this made her for crying out loud Rebecca start taking responsibility for your mistakes stop blaming others for spoiling your imaginary life you have so much compared to so many but you only want or appreciate the worth of the things you don’t have , if you don’t seek help you will never be happy, think about your bairns and your marriage before it’s too late , I am giving good advice despite not liking you I am trying to help you and your family , you are heading towards genuine anxiety and depression because you do not see what you have only what you think you have lost , those people you envy , those that are living the life you want or believe has been taken from you , you of all people should know that it’s all a game, an illusion that they put out only what they want followers to see , if you don’t you will make yourself ill , I know that you think that I am bitter , jealous , not very attractive miserable bastard troll but this advice is genuine and not malicious i don’t enjoy watching someone fall to pieces which you clearly are ! we don’t matter , your influencer best buddies don't matter , your bairns do , your family does
But most of us have real life experience and some wisdom that comes with age.
She's like Peter pan she's never really grown up.
Mummy and daddy spoiled her then Lee spoiled her.
Then she became a you tuber/ influencer she got fame/ money/gifts and was adored so she's been on a pedastool for a long time.
She has no self awareness how her actions effect others or the reality of time/budgets most mum's have.
She can't seem to accept any constructive criticism or responsibility for any wrong doing.
Just don't like. Be kind be transparent apologise if you done wrong simples!
She's stubborn she always has to be in the right.
She says Lee wears trousers I don't believe it.
I do believe her mental health issues are genuine but not on the way she thinks or portrays.
She claims she says anxiety but she's all good now and they so happy all negativity is water off a ducks back.
But nearly every month when lees on rig she's ringing him crying.
She's so manic with her blood one minute shed happy and hyper.
Next minute she's down and moody.
Just be difficult person to live with.
She does compare herself to others.
She is materialistic and tried to portray perfect life of middle class family with the dream house lovely kids and hobbies.
Yet reality is she can't cope with 3 kids without help from grandparents or Lee.
Every month she's moaning she's tired and poppy is ferrel.
We see regularly what a pit her house is.
Apparently crap all over floor is classic sign of depression.
She's weird relationship with food and obsessed with being teeny tiny and telling everyone that so I would say disordered eating as she goes one extreme to other with food chocolate booze and cake to salads checkpeas and t total.
She tells the most bonkers little lies.
Maybe even the sheep have rigged of 15k less views.
I think she reguarly obsessed over her stats.
She requires constant compliments from strangers.
There's 3 thinks me and my husband row about time together, state of house, money pressures.
Obviously couple time no issue meldrums.
But I bet Lee is pissy when he gets back off rig and house is a mess.
I detect tension when he last came back off nights she said they rowed.
There's been a couple q and a which felt tense and forced.
Lee doesn't like in-laws dogs.
Reba bored and done with the piggies.
Maybe over time Lee will snap and say you made so many bad decisions and got is into a mess.
We still unsure repercussions for the bunker boys.
We have Lee messaging women may be behind her back.
We know they don't agree on a dog
We know how sad he was when she shut meldrums down.
We know no holidays booked unheard of.
We know they mortgage up to eye balls as she told us they overextended yet 2019 they became less popular and lost a lot of brands due to their own actions.
The financial pressures they must be under forced Lee work away.
She's hardly cutting back of she's paying for gym nails hair and clothes plus numerous meals out and time away now is just for her.