Rebecca,
You need to look inward before blaming outward.
Perception is everything. If we perceive you aren’t sticking to the rules and you are acting underhand, you realllly need to question why it is we have this opinion? What have YOU done to make people think you are false? To be perceived as disingenuous would mean you would’ve had to have done something to make people think that.
When you figure out the answer to that, you may resolve your issues.
You need to look inward before blaming outward.
Perception is everything. If we perceive you aren’t sticking to the rules and you are acting underhand, you realllly need to question why it is we have this opinion? What have YOU done to make people think you are false? To be perceived as disingenuous would mean you would’ve had to have done something to make people think that.
When you figure out the answer to that, you may resolve your issues.