Rebecca, if you read this message please just know my intentions for you and your family are the very best. I work in PR and want to give you some advice.
1. Apologise properly to your audience across all channels, your audiences are different and they all need to be aware of the apology.
2. Address Disneyland Paris non disclosure, not taking food to the food bank, Lee messaging people, the KKK comment, declaring the name of the person on here and anything else at all than you can think of. Be sincere, apologise and say you’re SORRY not just ‘I apologise’ be sorry and show your audience that you are sorry. You may feel like you have done this but you haven’t. Telling people you are writing an apology isn’t actually being sorry.
3. Be open and honest with regards to how the issues you are having are affecting your life, not just monetary wise but how it is having an affect on your family, your health and your future. Not so people feel sorry for you but so people understand the detrimental effect their actions may have on your young family. Your children are your priority and their future is at stake if you don’t sort this out once and for all.
4. Be polite and informative, don’t go onto slate this forum, you may not agree with it and the comments that are written but you need to remain professional but personable. Your actions in the past have shown a side of you that people may not like however by reverting back to the way you were a couple of years ago there is a huge difference in the way you act. Of course people change and grow up but your morals and integrity should remain the same and unfortunately this isn’t what people are seeing from you. Remember this when issuing your apology.
5. Your followers have you on a pedestal and will forgive you easily, it is those who feel you have done wrong that will be hard to convince but you really do need to take the time to understand points and criticism those people are giving you and take those points on board. You don’t have to believe what they are saying but you should respect that everyone has an opinion, that’s just life, you have to move on. Do not blame anyone else for your actions, accept responsibility.
I genuinely believe your family are your priority and at the moment you are motivated by only thinking about the financial status of your future however with 3 your children you need to take a look at your mental health and seriously consider taking my points on board. For your sake and your children’s. I wish you nothing but the best, we’re all human who make mistakes just you live yours in the public eye, but remember that is through no choice but your own. Giving this all up and going into a ‘normal’ job isn’t admitting defeat, it’s admitting that your wellbeing and happiness comes first.