I think that there’s been a fair amount of posts over the threads that have given constructive criticism. I’ve had the impression over the last 8 months or so that many people haven’t wanted Rebecca to fail and had she maybe acted on some of the criticism offered she might not have created the shit storm that has followed her over the last few months. Instead the posters have been called trolls, jealous haters, etc when in fact some of them have given really good advice. Remember a lot of these posters were once followers and instead of listening to them they were deleted and blocked resulting in them coming here to offload.There are two types of criticism: constructive criticism and projected criticism.
Constructive Criticism
Constructive criticism is the type of criticism that every great person seeks out. If you are trying to improve yourself, hearing how good you are at something isn’t helpful. It’s nice to hear, sure, but what the person chasing excellence wants to know is, “what could I do better?”
Constructive criticism answers this question. It’s well thought out, objective, and the critic gives it with a level head. If the criticism is accurate, then it helps you improve. If the criticism is inaccurate, then you either learn what made the person see things that way, or ignore it.
Projected Criticism
Projected criticism is an emotional, negative reaction to something you’ve said or done. If someone rants about how irresponsible you are, it’s because something you did emotionally threatened them.
Projected criticism is simply a projection of a person’s psyche. It’s the result of envy, insecurity, or anger. It should always be ignored.
Ask for criticism
Once you understand and can identify projected criticism, criticism becomes useful.
It’s easy to ignore the haters once you understand what is behind their words. All that’s left is constructive criticism, which helps you grow and improve.
(https://connorgrooms.com/2-types-of-criticism/)
This@Kermit I am glad you are okay. If you are able I would definitely report her. There's no telling what some of the die hard fans could do, and you haven't done anything wrong.
Try and pretend nothing ever happenedShe has now removed the story that said she should never have named a troll, and Is fragile
Typical Rebecca the ostrich, delete it and it never happenedShe has now removed the story that said she should never have named a troll, and Is fragile
Is talking about public figures illegal? Not unless you're living under a dictatorship, which quite frankly many infuencers seem to like the sound of - just as long as they are the ones doing the dictating.Just out of interest. Is this site illegal? Guessing not as it would be taken down by now if it was?
This exactly, my 18yr old son was worried about me yesterday as I went out after work (which his dad knew I was doing) but my tracker app wasn't working, he was concerned because the night before I had been upset after work (work in mental health and after taking control of intense situation all day I came home and was emotional).I just cannot imagine how I would have felt as a 2 year old, 4 year old or 7 year old child, to have seen my mum talking/crying into a phone saying you were done, deflated, defeated.... those poor girls must be so scared and confused at what they see on a daily basis.
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