I have an established relationship and friendship with my hairdresser spanning many years and I’ve had lots of different styles/colours/lengths because she knows me and I trust her enough to say “go for it”. But if there’s something that wouldn’t work, she’d tell me and I’d accept it because she’s the expert.
Binny still thinks this is the 1950s and both of them are clearly stunted at the age they had Saf because even if my husband prefers me with one colour, if it’s ruining my hair and making it look like hers he’d be encouraging me to concentrate on getting it in better condition.
And honestly, someone who looks like that, wears a non-binary coat and has a Rangers tat on his leg has no business dictating what anyone looks like