Kindness is not bragging to your minions about what you have and they can't afford, kindness is not exploiting your innocent kids for sympathy engagement, kindness is looking after your pets PROPERLY, kindness is letting your newly married best bubs have her moment instead of wading in making it all about you, real kindness would be bleeping the offer of gifted mattresses and so on, and instead anonymously donating them to people instead of your dog.
Soph, we all know you read here....just do the decent thing - give it up because even though we don't know you personally it's very clear to see what kind of person you are....vile.