Hello everyone I have just joined, I’m so angry! I started out like quite a few and thought i liked Mrs Hinch, I followed her and even joined a group on Facebook (mainly for nosing at peoples home decor and the odd tip) which ended badly, I solely blamed the members of the group for their bitchy ness, cult like and often schoolyard bully behaviour, I would go on the group and scroll to have a look and pick up some tips and sometimes I would see someone asking a question or telling people to do something dangerous (mixing chemicals, thinking they’re cleaning something when actually they’re poisoning themselves and making it even dirtier) and would politely comment with facts or personal experience and sometimes just common sense. Each and every time I did this I was jumped on, mocked or told that I should leave the group, “-WHY ARE YOU EVEN HERE IF YOU DONT AGREE?!?” “Negavtive” “bringing people down” etc... I was muted from being allowed to post in the group for backing up someone who stated facts and posted links so I left the group and joined a different one. I still really enjoyed looking at peoples storage decor ideas etc, same thing again; herd mentality, not being allowed any sort of opinion and left feeling frustrated and angry that I am not allowed to say anything I’m thinking or try and help people with advice of any kind that goes against the ‘Hinch way’
Now Mrs Hinch is a member of these groups, she gets tagged in things by members and sometimes comments or makes a post herself. (Not on anything useful or that isn’t fawning over her) and I’ve realised that she is a massive hypocrite, she bangs on about bully’s and the like but does nothing to calm down the angry mob that sometimes bully anyone with any kind of sense, the admins of these groups are honestly intolerable, a case of drunk on power, they expect to be treated like gods and god forbid if you try and argue any kind of valid point, they call it being negative or causing trouble.
The blind following she has disgusts me and the two faced-ness and hyposcrisy is astounding, hate is a strong word but I actually feel like I hate someone I’ve never even met, I also feel like I hate the ‘HiNcH aRmY’ they’re a bunch of classless vulgar immature bullies and don’t have the capacity to understand that people are entitled to their own opinions and just because you don’t agree with someone it doesn’t make you negavtive or a hater.
To cut a long story short I wish I could do something to shut this whole thing down or even just get my point across without being blocked or silenced by these dumb asses, Mrs Hinch knows full well what her army are doing and revels in it, she loves being the leader of the pack and sitting back while the people she blatantly takes the piss out of do her bidding.
I’m really sorry for the long post but I actually feel quite upset right now, I’m having a down day and have just been reading through some of the people getting bullied and attacked for no reason and in turn has made me remember how pissed off I was when that was me.
Im to the point now where I comment everywhere I can and I admit sometimes I am aggravating on purpose even if I know it mostly falls on deaf ears I always hope that just one person will open their mind and maybe think twice about what they’re part of and see the light.
Again sorry for the essay but I really needed to write down exactly what I thought somewhere that there’s a chance it might be read and maybe certain points ring true!
I feel better already.